Alright, i'll chime in here...
First let me say i have been on both sides of this issue, plus the middle. I have had an airliner go around because of me...well, because of the bird at least(learjet), lost an engine on t/o roll and of course had to abort, airliner went around. Went around in an airliner because another bird was on the runway ahead and failed to clear as instructed by tower. Now for the third...went around(learjet again) for an airliner going the speed of molases on final and the runway.
It's not always in your cards as to how the go-arounds occur, however you can always do more to prevent them from happening. I can remember doing a "go-around" in the lear on short final for a citation...however, instead of going back out for a full approach, we just did a quick 360 and touched down uneventful. I have flown an airliner faster than our book says to keep the flow of traffic going, i have also slowed waaaaaaay down far out from the marker to prevent from having to do a go-around...all we had to do was take a look at our TCAS and see that the bird in front dropped anchor and so we did the same. The company ops tell you to fly a certain speed or profile, however if in the event it is necessary to do something different, you do it, it's as simple as that. If you need to keep it faster you do, if you need to slow down you do. If you don't play by the "friendly" rules, you will soon find yourself at the bottom of everyones list.
I always lived by the rules of get down and get off fast when i flew the lear, however the lear would do that without a problem, i have never flown a slowtation(your words), but i bet it could get off faster than the lear...especially much easier to make the first turnoff versus letting it roll...i mean heck, those brakes and reversers are there for a reason.
I'm not going to call you a dork or make fun of you or anything like that, but i would suggest if you fly into high traffic airports you maybe think about fitting in better with the flow of traffic, it just makes us all happier and then you don't have to come post threads like this on FI.