divorce corner

[tathepilot]

anyone doing this lately?

thoughts?
words of inspiration?

 

[Longhorn]

Time will heal it all.....

I filed in early 2005 and it ended in Aug 2006. I think mine was much longer than normal but here it is in Jan I am back on my feet again. It took some time and a lot of sleepless nights but things do get better, I can promise you that. Good luck with it and PM me if you need anything. I will tell you this though, you will find out who your real friends are. I could not have gotten through it without them.

 

[Rogue5]

Just a joke:

"Why are divorces so expensive?"

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"Because they're worth it..."

 

[tathepilot]

im willing to accept any and all jokes right now... hahaha

actually the divorce is not the expensive part...

Just a joke:

"Why are divorces so expensive?"

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"Because they're worth it..."

 

[doh]

I am trying to avoid divorce at this very moment. Right now it seems like I have a better than 50-50 chance, but each day is a new challenge. Good luck.

 

[MissKittyKat]

Time does heal, as Longhorn put it. Some people just do not get along. Or one or the other is lacking. If you had your dream woman or man, would you or would you not spend your entire life with them?

There are many factors that break-up marriages, time away from home, money, bills, lack of sex for both partners, lack of daily touches, hug me, kiss me, scratch my back honey, "just hold me" type of issues.

And then there is a rampage, " I'm just going to do what I what to do attitude" and then this is what becomes devastating"

And then your are no longer interested in that boat that your husband has, you are tired of fishing, and just tired of the same old stuff he does, your husband stopped buying your flowers a long time ago.

You continually have to try new things as a partner to make it work! And you must compromise and contribute!

 

[Way2Broke]

AIDS......... Aviation Induced Divorce Sendrome

 

[cooler07]

I’m on the back side of mine now, together for 7 years, split in SEP. 2006. File DEC 2006. Turned out all she ever wanted was a green card and a flying job that I helped her get.

My flying job kept me on the road for sometime. So after the first month she told me that she didn’t need me any more. In the end she had hooked up with her 63 year old captain that’s 32 year older then her. Guess there happy flying charter together in BUF.

I never saw it coming.

But do hang in there and it will get better. The hardest part is trying to stop the VIDEO REPLAYS IN YOUR MIND………………

And the “what if`s” from morning to night. It is amazing how little sleep you get, how much weight you loose and still manage to work. Try not to drink to much because it doesn’t help.

Friends are the greatest help. I also found a site that really helped me.


“http://www.divorcerecovery101.com/site_map.html


Remember this “the sun will come up tomorrow and you never know what the tide will bring in”.

 

[JimG]

Mine was 5 years ago next month.

After 21 years of marriage, my ex-wife decided she liked the 26 y/o guy who'd been remodeling our house for the prior 3 years.

I've been remarried for a couple of years now and couldn't be happier.

It was an interesting experience for me.

My ex-wife did me one helluva favor, but it took me awhile to realize that.

 

[tathepilot]

you have some good words... i do try to look at everything for the positive effects..

before, i wasnt able to get a flying job because i was busy supporting 'her' and being there for her..

but when *hit the fan i sent out my resume, got a few invitations, and now i got a good paying flying gig, and i couldn't be more happier...

we didnt have much time into it, so the rebuilding part isn't as much, some couples have been together for 5+ years, and that is when it can be a real nightmare..

I’m on the back side of mine now, together for 7 years, split in SEP. 2006. File DEC 2006. Turned out all she ever wanted was a green card and a flying job that I helped her get.

My flying job kept me on the road for sometime. So after the first month she told me that she didn’t need me any more. In the end she had hooked up with her 63 year old captain that’s 32 year older then her. Guess there happy flying charter together in BUF.

I never saw it coming.

But do hang in there and it will get better. The hardest part is trying to stop the VIDEO REPLAYS IN YOUR MIND………………

And the “what if`s” from morning to night. It is amazing how little sleep you get, how much weight you loose and still manage to work. Try not to drink to much because it doesn’t help.

Friends are the greatest help. I also found a site that really helped me.


“http://www.divorcerecovery101.com/site_map.html


Remember this “the sun will come up tomorrow and you never know what the tide will bring in”.

 

[FlyUnited]

Feel lucky TA......it could have been a LOT longer than that. Take your heart and give it to someone who deserves it.

 

[arthompson]

been there myself, not a pilot, but mine hooked up with a domino's driver

 

[olympus593]

No divorce for my but a very nasty break up after 4 years of doing everything I could and more to make her happy, I know it's suck brother, can't eat, can't sleep, but it always get better with time, a few month down the road you will find that it's not so bad being single you can do whatever you want nobody to nag you and put you down days after day. Once single you will also find out that there is probably plenty of great girl that are interested in you. Looking back you will see all her bad sides, I started dating again and found that there is girls that will actually treat you like a king and love you and let you be yourself. PM if you need to talk, best advice talk to you close friend, and also look around you I've seen friend going thru some
F up divorce, stuff that you could not believe a lot worts than your's I'm sure.
That worst part for me she won't give me my cat back.

 

[olympus593]

Try not to drink to much because it doesn’t help.

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I'm going to have to disagree with you here.

 

[cooler07]

I'm going to have to disagree with you here.

LOL, yeah I was trying to be a good role model there. In truth, whenever I was asked how I was doing with my alcohol consumption the best I could do was reply "it's gone up." That's probably an understatement. After I gave up the vodka tonics my hands don't shake nearly as much.....LOL

 

[navigator72]

I newly married so the sex is good, the companionship is great, I couldn't be happier. I want to know the leading cause of your divorces? I really feel bad hearing about your divorces but I wonder what is was that got you to this point?

 

[pilotviolin]

I newly married so the sex is good, the companionship is great, I couldn't be happier. I want to know the leading cause of your divorces? I really feel bad hearing about your divorces but I wonder what is was that got you to this point?

Reminds me of a joke.

What food ruins a woman's libido?

 

[pilotviolin]

Wedding Cake.

Just wait a year buddy.

 

[learflyer]

I want to know the leading cause of your divorces? I ?

Time, Junior, time.

 

[Dilligaff]

I want to know the leading cause of your divorces?

Marriage!

 

[AerroMatt]

Another Joke,

Been there, done that Dude. 12 years of marriage went down the tubes for what appeared to be nothing at the time (although I did see it coming). Afterwards, I vowed to get out of the damn truck and get back into aviation. I did, so I guess I can thank the two-timing slut / thieving whore for that. Yes it cost me my house, but that's only money... I'll make more.

Yanno, I still miss my ex, but my aim's improving! :nuts: :uzi:

 

[5w5flyer]

Wow, I didn't realize how bad things were in my relationship.
She filed last week. I'm living with my parents.

No replay of events for me. I've been eating alot. Slept really good last night. Probably the best I've slept in 5 years. Haven't been drinking at all.

I'm surrounded by people that care about me. Family, friends, and my dog. Strangers treat me better than that beaiitch did.

No one to nag, hold me back from my dreams, and corrupt me.

I'm really excited about my new life. Sometimes divorce can be a good thing.

Anyone else feel this way?

 

[tathepilot]

No one to nag, hold me back from my dreams, and corrupt me.

you could not have said this better!
yesterday i went shopping and it felt so good to buy the clothes that i like without getting crucified

 

[IrishjbPilot]

Wow, I didn't realize how bad things were in my relationship.
She filed last week. I'm living with my parents.

No replay of events for me. I've been eating alot. Slept really good last night. Probably the best I've slept in 5 years. Haven't been drinking at all.

I'm surrounded by people that care about me. Family, friends, and my dog. Strangers treat me better than that beaiitch did.

No one to nag, hold me back from my dreams, and corrupt me.

I'm really excited about my new life. Sometimes divorce can be a good thing.

Anyone else feel this way?

Yes, 100%

 

[MissKittyKat]

This is such a tuff department to comment on. This is my belief, there is someone for everyone. Unconditional love, is something I believe in. I have been divorced twice, got married at 18, lost a child, the husband beat me for 3 years straight! Guess what I.m a survivor and great person. I don't look back. Got married again to a great husband and father, I LOST INTEREST IN HIM, He is still my friend the father of my son, and never dated anyone,


Until.......................................... Bruce asked me to run away with him, after 24 hours of meeting him....................... I never dated this man, never knew anything about him............................. But i raN away with someone I did know, just worked out. 9 nine years, here we are,

 

[MarineGrunt]

I newly married so the sex is good, the companionship is great, I couldn't be happier.

I've been with my wife for 7 years and married for almost 4 of them. Even after 2 kids and we are still sharing the great things you mentioned. Where your marriage takes you is up to you and your wife. Sometimes it takes a LOT of work and communication to keep things going in the right direction, which is why I assume a lot of marriages end in divorce.

You guys/gals can take this for what it's worth, but my wife read the book "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Dr. Laura a year or two ago and our marriage/friendship has never been better.

 

[capt. megadeth]

my wife read the book "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Dr. Laura a year or two ago and our marriage/friendship has never been better.

Isn't that that dumb idiot WOMAN that actually says a woman's place is in the home and taking care of it and her husband or something stupid like that?

F*** is she a dumb b!tch! I'd love to slap her silly.


Yeah, yeah, yeah....I know.....there will be posts saying something like "smart lady" or some stupid bull$hit....you all can save it. She is a moron and a disgrase to females everywhere.

 

[turning2]

For those having difficulty or perhaps just wanting to strengthen their relationship, this is a fantastic book from a completely different perspective than the typical counseling mumbo jumbo. 5/5 stars from 85+ people on amazon... kinda hard to beat for $10.

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[Oh-ryan]

Isn't that that dumb idiot WOMAN that actually says a woman's place is in the home and taking care of it and her husband or something stupid like that?

F*** is she a dumb b!tch! I'd love to slap her silly.


Yeah, yeah, yeah....I know.....there will be posts saying something like "smart lady" or some stupid bull$hit....you all can save it. She is a moron and a disgrase to females everywhere.

Everyone order a copy of Dr. Laura's book and be sure to get UPS shipping for it. Then sleep well at night knowing Capt. Megadeath is up in the skies hauling around volumes upon volumes of that book.

 

[Windsor]

Yes it cost me my house, but that's only money... I'll make more.

LOVE is Grand!!!!!!
















Divorce is $100 Grand