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[Dizel8]

I'm going to have to disagree with you here.

I agree with you there, it all depends on who you are drinking with

 

[Dizel8]

Met beautiful 32 year old, red headed Russian, “and the Russian women still have the family values of being a team together, not a bloody competitor” she is taking me to Russia for vacation next month. 3 months from now I’ll be scuba diving with her in Mexico,

Not that I know the lady in question or her status, but a friend of mine did the whole russian bride thing, I suppose it might have been fun while it lasted, however, she got a greencard, he got a bill!

 

[capt. megadeth]

Everyone order a copy of Dr. Laura's book and be sure to get UPS shipping for it. Then sleep well at night knowing Capt. Megadeath is up in the skies hauling around volumes upon volumes of that book.

Yes! Yes! Yes! Please give me more job security!


Funny $hit! I love it!

 

[capt. megadeth]

Society would be a lot better with a strong figure head at home, a WOMAN,taking care of the house and raising the kids. Values today are lacking because not enough are out there doing it.

Yep.....taking care of the house and raising the kids.....completely DEPENDENT on a man!

DON'T THINK SO BRO!

My mom HAD to work because my father was a drunk loser! She taught me to never be dependent on anyone but myself. Best advice I ever got.

 

[capt. megadeth]

What do you think when a wife declares she will no longer work and her husband should take care of her if he is 'a real man', even though we have no kids and her man is a regional FO making about 3,000/mo. She wants to sell our house and move to an apartment if that is what it takes, but who says that is what I want. She had to have this house and furnish it with cetain things. Now she wants to bail and stick me with it even if I had to get a second job!! WTF!!!!

Unless you want to take care of someone else for the rest of your life, either set her a$$ straight or forget about it. I have no respect for women like this.

 

[capt. megadeth]

Sometimes, us guys are just thinking with the wrong head when we marry someone, and it takes a few years before the blood gets pumping up high enough that our brains start to kick in again.

Amen bro! Amen!

I don't get the big hurry with getting married either. It seems to me that after two to three years, reality sets in and that's when you know if you are truly compatible long term. My fiancee and I have been together over 5 years. I have never questioned whether or not I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him, but the longer I am with him, time has just made me even more sure (like 150% sure instead of 100%). I think waiting a while doesn't hurt. Once you are married, if things change, it's a lot harder to get out of plus then the other person is legally entitled to half of your $hit (lame if you ask me but then again, I didn't make that stupid law).

 

[dojetdriver]

Yep.....taking care of the house and raising the kids.....completely DEPENDENT on a man!

DON'T THINK SO BRO!

My mom HAD to work because my father was a drunk loser! She taught me to never be dependent on anyone but myself. Best advice I ever got.

So that explains it!

Daddy issues.

 

[cooler07]

Not that I know the lady in question or her status, but a friend of mine did the whole russian bride thing, I suppose it might have been fun while it lasted, however, she got a greencard, he got a bill!

I’ve already been played like that one time before. And this one has the green card along with her own business here in the US. I’ll keep the single life now and run the field. The way I see it is you can play the game or get played by the OTHER HALF.

That seems to be the norm now days. So the choice is crawl in a corner like a dog that has been beat or get off the bench and play it for all its worth. And if that grenade is getting ready to go off in your face, then get rid of it mate.

It is amazing how many are out there and what is possible after you get back on the ready line. A nice car helps I know that! LOL

Just never let anyone get that close again or you will end up eating that grenade!

S!

 

[AerroMatt]

Re: Russian Brides

Not that I know the lady in question or her status, but a friend of mine did the whole russian bride thing, I suppose it might have been fun while it lasted, however, she got a greencard, he got a bill!

Sorry to hear of your friend's bad experience. Based on personal experience, I would guess your friend either married a woman who had ulterior motives, or he treated her like crap so she didn't feel any remorse over using him to get a Green Card.

I have actually done the Russian Bride thing this second time around, and it has been a wonderful thing for me! I actually didn't go out looking for her, she found me (thru an ad I placed on the internet). We have been married nearly 4 years now and have two beautiful children (my avatar is a pic of my youngest ).

Is it a perfect relationship? Hell no! We have alot of the usual arguments. Are we happy together? Yes indeed! The difference between my previous marriage and now is that we work together as a team. The arguments can be pretty heavy (she is one HELL of a negotiator. Wish I could convince her to go to Law School), but we always work towards our common goals and settle our differences.

Finding your better half overseas and over the internet isn't the best course for everyone, I'll admit. However, it isn't necessarily a man-trap either.

Good luck to everyone out there in their love lives.

 

[AerroMatt]

...Met beautiful 32 year old, red headed Russian, “and the Russian women still have the family values of being a team together, not a bloody competitor” she is taking me to Russia for vacation next month. 3 months from now I’ll be scuba diving with her in Mexico...

Kewlbeans, Cooler! ^5 to ya! Please let us know where in Russia you go... I've been there a few times on my own dime also.

Not many Redheaded Russians out there, but I know there are a few. Just be careful of that redhead temper!

 

[atpcliff]

Hi!

I am starting a post on this topic, but it's relevant here:

"The Feminine Mistake", according to author Leslie Benetts, is when a woman drops out of the workforce to raise her child, she is "adding an unacceptable level of financial risk to her life." The author recommends that women work, and stay in the workforce until they retire.

cliff
YIP

 

[MissKittyKat]

Sorry to hear of your problems 414, Not every female is a problem nor every male, I am very sympathatic and have empathy for people. I am really truly sorry of everything you have gone through, you literally poured your heart out here on this message board. You caught my attention this evening.

I often talked about Bruce my finacee and someone I lived with for 9 years, no I'm not divorced from Bruce, but he lives lives in my heart and I'm engaged to a dead man. I know how hard relationships can be, the man is looking for the girl the boy is looking for the girl. There is someone for everyone, main thing, take care of yourself first.

I beliveve, when you wake up every morning and love yourself as a right person, you will find the right person. If you are with someone and not in the positive light then you need to find the right person!

Good luck and all my best!

 

[atpcliff]

Hi!

I know a guy who had a Russian bride. She bolted almost as soon as she got into the country. I guess she's now an illegal alien.

cliff
DRT

 

[learflyer]

I often talked about Bruce my finacee and someone I lived with for 9 years, no I'm not divorced from Bruce, but he lives lives in my heart and I'm engaged to a dead man. I know how hard relationships can be, the man is looking for the girl the boy is looking for the girl. There is someone for everyone, main thing, take care of yourself first.

maam, you are engaged to a cadaver? Your posts are so psychotic!:nuts:

 

[KigAir]

My mom HAD to work because my father was a drunk loser! She taught me to never be dependent on anyone but myself. Best advice I ever got.

More people need to heed this advice.

 

[MissKittyKat]

Why is it so hard to believe what I write? Just because I got married at 18 does not make me a bad person. I truly believed in marriage and held that in my heart. " I was very young. I had no idea the first husband who did not lay a hand on me would actually, "beat me" after I got married. Remember I was 18.

I lost interest in my second husband, he was 12 years my senior and a bachelor he was 37 I was 24, I still love him dearly but not "in love" with him. Yes, He is a great father and a great person, but not for me, we have simular interests, but he's not into dancing, music and dining, just not much of an artist, but believe me a great father to my son (autistic) and a great person.

I wrote on this board that I was engaged to a dead man, he was a pilot and I'm still engaged to him. He died on a layover in March, I still wear his ring.

Regardless, I can't control people so I'm not sure what happened in my first marriage, remember I was 18, but I tried, believe or not, I am still in contact with him every six months or so, he works for Brahman Motors here in Florida, been there about 12 years and everytime I see him, he still apologizes for his behavihor. I still love my son's Dad, but it is a different kind of love, he just is not for me. Bruce was the love of my life, and what we had was rare, How many people do you that "have been in love for nine years"? Everytime he kissed me, my breath was taken away. We were so involved ingaged by the hip, hand holding everyday, we never felt naked around each other, we felt like we had clothes on, I mean it was that deep. When you get to that point you know that it is right, it was very rare. Please do not make comments that are unsuitable, or you know not to be true, but I had something very very special. I just wish everyone the best of luck, you will be my heart,

and I need to find someone again,take care!

 

[MissKittyKat]

Learflyer, you yourself, personally left a post for me, dated march 8th, you also called me miss twitty kat. Well my name is Tina and I do not appreciate your rude comments. I have every right to defend myself when it comes to stupid people like yourself. I'm not sure if you are 42 like myself but you sir are very rude, you should be ashamed of yourself!

 

[capt. megadeth]

I wrote on this board that I was engaged to a dead man, he was a pilot and I'm still engaged to him. He died on a layover in March, I still wear his ring.

Bruce was the love of my life, and what we had was rare, How many people do you that "have been in love for nine years"? Everytime he kissed me, my breath was taken away. We were so involved ingaged by the hip, hand holding everyday, we never felt naked around each other, we felt like we had clothes on, I mean it was that deep. When you get to that point you know that it is right, it was very rare.

WOW! I am with you.....this kind of stuff is rare. I feel like I have something like that with my fiancee....something not many people have. If something ever happened to him (which I can't imagine what you have gone through.....I would be a complete wreck), I would wear my ring too. I am sorry for your loss....I can't even imagine.

 

[learflyer]

Learflyer, you yourself, personally left a post for me, dated march 8th, you also called me miss twitty kat. Well my name is Tina and I do not appreciate your rude comments. I have every right to defend myself when it comes to stupid people like yourself. I'm not sure if you are 42 like myself but you sir are very rude, you should be ashamed of yourself!

My sincere apologies. Your post did not make sense to me. Did not know about your husband. I feel aweful!

 

[MissKittyKat]

Learflyer, I want to say what a nice gentleman you are! I know that people sometimes can't understand others on message boards, but I wanted to personally accept your apology. Bruce worked for Stanford Financial, and it has been very tuff on me, but I'm managing. He was a Hawker Captain for them and he died in Houston, so I had his body flown home to Florida. I never expected in a million years that I would go through this, and I have tremendous grief. I am sorry even to type what I typed, but I just didn't appreciate through my grief, someone making fun of me. I hope so much that nobody is walking in my shoes.

The problem is Yes, I have been divorced and can understand, no matter what the circumstances are, it is still hard, very hard.

At the time of Bruce's death, his company owed him 10,000 dollars in back pay. I called his company and asked for the checks to be sent promptly so that I could pay the bills "in his name". Well, I won't see a check, even though I'm on the death certificate. Stanford is a Texas company, therefore I'm entitled to his checks (which he made while he was alive) to pay bills.

Like I said, I wish not anyone to walk in my shoes, but the honesty is, the computer, aol, the phone company, the electric company, the water company, are in his name, yet I have not seen a check.

I'm doing ok, but Learflyer, you made my whole day! Thanks for your apology and feel free to pm me anytime,

Tina Leigh