I got news for you. Every pilot hired at every airline (with a very few exceptions) has been told 3-5 year upgrade. Actually happens about 5-10% of the time. In fact, I'm on my 4th airline and was told as little as one year but never more than five. If you think that is a legitimate expectation you're very new to this.
Oh yeah, you may upgrade in 3-5. Then downgrade. Then upgrade. Then sit reserve for six years. Then, voila! After more like 10 years you REALLY upgraded.
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AAhh.....it has nothing to do with "told." Guys are online in the left seat at CAL who have been with the company less than 3 yrs. That is FACT! I don't care if you are on airline number 25. Means nothing. A$$es in seats is what matters and right now there is 2.5 yr a$$ in the left seat at CAL. At UAL? ........not so much. You got 8K hrs, you have not been at this any longer than I.