I'll concede that the Captain has the absolute right to be a dick. His airplane, his rules. HOWEVER, that doesn't exempt him from public ridicule and scorn for making a bad call. Go ahead Cap'n, exercise your authority all you want. I'm not questioning your authority to make the call, I'm just calling you out for being a dick. If you deny me for no valid reason other than you can prepare for me to tell everybody else what you did because I can.
yeah --- what he said. Excellent summation.