Well, that explains everything. No curiosity, no imagination, no big picture, no prospective on life whatsoever.
You have a job and you have a mortgage so you think you have it all figured out?
Let me ask you, since you're living the dream as a single guy and a pilot, how many trips have you taken since you've had your travel benefits? (and I'm not talking about Vegas), I mean how many countries have you explored? how many week-ends to Rome or Tokyo, how many stamps in your passport?
Not many is my guess...because "Never felt the need to do that other stuff".....dang! you are living the dream