My best suggestion is that you drink less on your overnights and talk less on the day after. As a matter of fact, if you had done less talking on the night of the incident you probably wouldn't have found yourself in the situation in the first place. To clarify, this is my (pilot) husbands login, I, his wife am a flight attendant. You are the perfect example of who FA's should NEVER go out drinking with. You talk trash at night and then talk about the trashy stuff you did with a lonely FA the next day with all of your SHARK buddies. Your flight attendant friend has feelings too and maybe she regrets it too! If she doesn't I'm quite sure you will make sure she does! I am so fortunate that my husband doesn't play these games so many pilots do, and I have witnessed more than I care to, such as a little game we call musical wedding rings. I have also seen the aftermath. Ruined marriages & ruined careers to name a couple. This is a difficult career choice as far as social boundaries go. Slam clickers are scorned, but if you go out you take the chance of this very thing happening. It's a losing situation on both sides. DRINK LESS, it will protect your career too! Have dinner, keep the conversation clean, no company gossip, and drink 2 beers max. Then go back to your room and read a good book! Everyone gets out unscathed! If you are looking for someone to feel bad for you because you had relations with a fat girl while under the influence, I'm sorry but she's the one I feel bad for. In case you are wondering, no I'm not fat. Even the thin girls get bad reps from guys like you!
