I don't mean to sound flippant since there but for the Grace of God go I.
Since when is the controller responsible for making sure that we taxi to and take off of the correct runway. Ultimately it comes down to the crew to do what is directed or by using our command authority, to tell ATC no. If a controller sees that we are messing up, by all means let us know (and they don't hesitate to "Are you ready to copy down a phone number?") but if they don't see it, it doesn't become their fault. It is still our responsibility and it always will be.
My $.02.
Since when is the controller responsible for making sure that we taxi to and take off of the correct runway. Ultimately it comes down to the crew to do what is directed or by using our command authority, to tell ATC no. If a controller sees that we are messing up, by all means let us know (and they don't hesitate to "Are you ready to copy down a phone number?") but if they don't see it, it doesn't become their fault. It is still our responsibility and it always will be.
My $.02.