I hate to even jump in here, but I feel that I must say a few things.
The first is, it sounds like there are a lot of guys (generic) who have never made a bad landing in their life. I'm hoping that you continue to shine like that throughout the rest of your career.
Secondly: The F/O in this incident was afforded the remedial training as specified in the CBA between FedEx and the pilots. She didn't receive any extra training that any other guy wouldn't have also received, at least at FedEx.
Third: A guy was in charge of the aircraft and evaluating the F/O. Do you guys all want to berate him as well? You could argue that he should have taken the jet for the landing based on the conditions that day. Yet he was evaluating the F/O and probably felt that this was a good test of her abilities.
Anybody on here ever instructed in the jet? Ever let a student go a little too far to let them learn from their mistake? Ever had a student make a poor landing even as you were just about to say or do something but just didn't quite make it in time and they really pranged it on? I know I have had all these things happen to me.
The point is to be careful throwing stones at your brethren.
That was an extremely rough and windy day in Memphis. The MD-10 is a very old airframe. It appears that the pilots landed in a crab and the landing gear failed. Could have happened to any number of people landing jets that day in Memphis, particularly old ones with many, many cycles on the landing gear.
Go easy and remember there but for the grace of God go YOU.
FJ