jarhead
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This thread started by a rant against those people who went to a 141 university (UND) and who used “daddy’s” money to become educated.
The term “daddy’s” is used in a contemptuous fashion. Perhaps he did not have the good fortune to have parents whose desire was to help their progeny become successful. Is that the ‘reason’ for the apparent contempt? WTF?
Don’t an awful lot of kids in this country have their parent’s support in getting a post high school education? Doctors, lawyers, teachers, chemistry majors, etc etc, all have parental support for their education when the parents have the means to provide help for their children. For some reason, this hits a nerve in the thread starter that smells an awful lot like rank jealousy.
BTW, I am NOT rich (and that is not a dirty word), but I was in fact, able to provide my son with the financial support for four years at UND, where he graduated with a B.S. in Aeronautical Science. And yes, by the time the blood letting from the checking accounts had stopped the hemorrhaging, it was in excess of 100K for the B.S. and all the ratings. This effort (the financial one) was shared by myself, my wife, my son’s grandparents, and by my son himself. We ALL contributed to the financial part of the effort; my son contributed 100% to the academic effort. It was not easy for any of us! Upon graduation from UND, he COMPETED with 135 other UND grads for one of 30 new instructor slots at the university that fall, and was successful in landing one of those CFI positions there. Yes, he earned sh!t wages there, and stayed with it until he had 1300/250 hours, and 2-1/2 years later, he was able to get an interview with Comair, and was ultimately hired. Sh!t wages once again for the first year, but things eventually got better on the pay front, and by good fortune and lucky timing, Comair grew at a rapid rate back in the late 90’s and he got his Captain upgrade in just 3 years. Then, just a year after his upgrade, more stress with a three month long strike. Life goes on, and at this time he seems pretty well off financially. This is good. Why does the thread starter seem to resent it that a parent would support their child’s success? Most normal adults that I know are not only happy to support their children; it is a main focus for meaning during that stage of their lives.
I too, am a former active Marine. I did not get a college degree, and more than anything, I wanted life to be better for my son than it was for me. So I supported his desire to become an airline pilot as best I could. My son is 33 years old, and he calls me “Dad”. That makes me happy! He stopped calling me “daddy” around the age of 5. I am 63 years old now and happily retired, having a cup that is as full as I could want or expect.
I am very confused as to the contempt this thread starter has for parents who chose to support their children. He’ll do a lot better if he “loses the attitude” that he is somehow more entitled because he’s a former Jarhead. That isn’t a ‘pass’ for the rest of life’s rigors. Life ain’t fair, and it never has been. But, it is real. Adapt and survive….or perish.
Had my son wanted to be a professional baseball player, I would have supported that effort with just as much vigor.
That’s the end of my ‘rant’.
The term “daddy’s” is used in a contemptuous fashion. Perhaps he did not have the good fortune to have parents whose desire was to help their progeny become successful. Is that the ‘reason’ for the apparent contempt? WTF?
Don’t an awful lot of kids in this country have their parent’s support in getting a post high school education? Doctors, lawyers, teachers, chemistry majors, etc etc, all have parental support for their education when the parents have the means to provide help for their children. For some reason, this hits a nerve in the thread starter that smells an awful lot like rank jealousy.
BTW, I am NOT rich (and that is not a dirty word), but I was in fact, able to provide my son with the financial support for four years at UND, where he graduated with a B.S. in Aeronautical Science. And yes, by the time the blood letting from the checking accounts had stopped the hemorrhaging, it was in excess of 100K for the B.S. and all the ratings. This effort (the financial one) was shared by myself, my wife, my son’s grandparents, and by my son himself. We ALL contributed to the financial part of the effort; my son contributed 100% to the academic effort. It was not easy for any of us! Upon graduation from UND, he COMPETED with 135 other UND grads for one of 30 new instructor slots at the university that fall, and was successful in landing one of those CFI positions there. Yes, he earned sh!t wages there, and stayed with it until he had 1300/250 hours, and 2-1/2 years later, he was able to get an interview with Comair, and was ultimately hired. Sh!t wages once again for the first year, but things eventually got better on the pay front, and by good fortune and lucky timing, Comair grew at a rapid rate back in the late 90’s and he got his Captain upgrade in just 3 years. Then, just a year after his upgrade, more stress with a three month long strike. Life goes on, and at this time he seems pretty well off financially. This is good. Why does the thread starter seem to resent it that a parent would support their child’s success? Most normal adults that I know are not only happy to support their children; it is a main focus for meaning during that stage of their lives.
I too, am a former active Marine. I did not get a college degree, and more than anything, I wanted life to be better for my son than it was for me. So I supported his desire to become an airline pilot as best I could. My son is 33 years old, and he calls me “Dad”. That makes me happy! He stopped calling me “daddy” around the age of 5. I am 63 years old now and happily retired, having a cup that is as full as I could want or expect.
I am very confused as to the contempt this thread starter has for parents who chose to support their children. He’ll do a lot better if he “loses the attitude” that he is somehow more entitled because he’s a former Jarhead. That isn’t a ‘pass’ for the rest of life’s rigors. Life ain’t fair, and it never has been. But, it is real. Adapt and survive….or perish.
Had my son wanted to be a professional baseball player, I would have supported that effort with just as much vigor.
That’s the end of my ‘rant’.