satpak77
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b757driver said:Excellent post, mar!
b757driver said:You hit the nail on the head here. This attitude is certainly prevalent and some, but not all ,military guys have limited knowledge when it comes to the flip side. I'm also ex-military so I know it from BOTH sides.
Adler - you want a compelling example? I'll give you one, since you asked.
How about the Capt who blew four tires on a MLW 747 because he "forgot" to flare before landing in DXB and then blamed it on the brakes! No, he was not civilian. We all make mistakes and there are good apples as well as bad. You should know that.
People should respect each other as professionals, no matter what their backgrounds.
Since I am ex-military, I do appreciate what those guys have gone through, but they chose to leave and enter the civilian world which is NOT an extension of the military. When in Rome..... Next question?
And yes, I do apprciate what military aviators go through. Next question?
Palomino said:how about concentrating on the product you are trying to sell: YOURSELF.
don't worry about discrimination, quotas, rumors, etc. you can always find a hurdle if you want to. but, that's just a reason to be lazy in your career pursuit.
i've swallowed my pride a fair amount and it has resulted in some dreams coming true.
knock the chip off, check the ego, swallow the pride. focus all of that wasted energy on networking, resume presentation, interview preparation and make yourself a desirable candidate for the position.
it does take work and effort for most of us to get the call. believe me, it is worth all the effort.
best of luck
AdlerDriver said:I certainly don’t doubt you run into an occasional ex-military @sshole. Every demographic has its 1% share of idiots. The guy in your example though……..What do you want him to do when you tell him you used to fly a DC6 in Alaska? Offer to suck your d!ck?
FNG_that's me said:If there is such a bias, and always has been, why didn't you just join the military, fly fighters and then get out and just walk into your dream job? You know, just do it the 'easy' way...
mar said:I'll sum it up like this: I don't begrudge military pilots *anything*. It's hard work, it takes skill, and good for them.
But some of the guys I've been working with just don't see the flip side to that coin.
mar said:<breaks out my flag and starts waving it around>
Awesome post!
Is all that true? I had no idea!!!
You're right! Airline hiring is about *so* much more than just flying airplanes from Point A to Point B.
I feel like such a loser for having been continually employed for the last 15 years and being a taxpayer. I could've been so much more.
I am an Army of just one.
mar said:See?
It's this lack of perspective that bothers me.
And contrary to what Satpak77 thinks, this isn't your "typical" military vs. civilian thread.
I'm not suggesting that one is better than the other.
And contrary to what Mr. AdlerDriver thinks, I do, in fact, *appreciate* very much what it takes become a military pilot.
I'm sorry that I couldn't conjure a more compelling example for you. It was really a composite as I was trying to be brief and didn't want to bore you with a description of every flight deck conversation I've had.
This thread really has less to do with how I'm regarded at work than how you (in the general sense) would be naive to deny that a bias exists.
There *is* a bias. And I think the bias exists because military pilots tend to stick together. And that's not a criticism. But if you're fresh out of the military and you've had one civilian job, then, you know, where's your perspective? Where's your point of reference? Where's your measuring stick?
That's all I was trying to say.
By the way, when you check in with tower, do you still report "wheels down"?
AdlerDriver said:That said, I don’t really know what it’s like to fly 16 legs in a day across the northern Midwest like my crashpad roommate used to do. Do I “appreciate” it? Who knows. I know it sound like it would be a b!tch – but I really don’t know squat about it.
airmasn said:Anyone talk to the FedEx recruiter last weekend in Atlanta at the Air, Inc. conference? Just wondering if anything good would have come of attending?
mar said:"Who knows?"
*You* know. You know whether or not it means anything to you.
But this discussion is gonna end up like the old cliche': If I have to explain it then you wouldn't understand.
In other words, if you can't discern the bias all by yourself, especially after four pages of this thread then you're really quite oblivious to it.
As for your perspective, let me put it like this: Throughout this thread I've tried to be diplomatic--even empathetic.
I think diplomacy comes with perspective (and maybe experience). If I need to explain to you how perspective is important in evaluating our relationships with others (specifically, in this case, our co-workers) then what's the point of continuing the discussion?