A Squared,
Sure you can buy a house in Westchester for $400,000 and I could put a family of four in 1400 sf, pay $15,000 a year in taxes and have a lousy school district, or buy a $250,000 apartment in the Bronx and spend the day avoiding gunfire. That is not middle class living by anyones definition. I am not stupid. You can buy a trailer in the worst part of Memphis for $27,000 but that does not mean I would live there.
Someone said $14,000 a year is poverty wages. Well if $40,000 a year in Saint Lous is the equivalent of $80,000 a year in New York, divide $40,000 between a family of four, that is $10,000 per person in proportional wages. Well below the poverty line. A Fedex pilot in LA has to earn $30,000 more per year to have the same standard of he or she would if they lived in Memphis.
Your continued failure to understand cost of living in different part of the country is leading me to believe you are either very young, don't have to support anyone, or live in a very low cost area.
Something else to ponder. In 1998 a senior Captain for a major airline made $230,000 adjusted for inflation. Now they make $130,000 and that is after over 20 years of service. The median price of a home has gone from $104,000 to $210,000, gas costs three times as much, cars are a third more expensive. So the cost of everything has nearly doubled, yet pilot wages have gone down by half.
If you have a family of four and live near a major metropolitan area, you would know $80,000 does not go very far, and a number of people have told you that. Am I living beyond my means because I want to give each of my kids there own bedroom or I want to be able to put something away for both my retirement and their college education? Is my nine year old Toyota Camry living in luxury?