divorce corner

[atpcliff]

Hi!

I am starting a post on this topic, but it's relevant here:

"The Feminine Mistake", according to author Leslie Benetts, is when a woman drops out of the workforce to raise her child, she is "adding an unacceptable level of financial risk to her life." The author recommends that women work, and stay in the workforce until they retire.

cliff
YIP

 

[MissKittyKat]

Sorry to hear of your problems 414, Not every female is a problem nor every male, I am very sympathatic and have empathy for people. I am really truly sorry of everything you have gone through, you literally poured your heart out here on this message board. You caught my attention this evening.

I often talked about Bruce my finacee and someone I lived with for 9 years, no I'm not divorced from Bruce, but he lives lives in my heart and I'm engaged to a dead man. I know how hard relationships can be, the man is looking for the girl the boy is looking for the girl. There is someone for everyone, main thing, take care of yourself first.

I beliveve, when you wake up every morning and love yourself as a right person, you will find the right person. If you are with someone and not in the positive light then you need to find the right person!

Good luck and all my best!

 

[atpcliff]

Hi!

I know a guy who had a Russian bride. She bolted almost as soon as she got into the country. I guess she's now an illegal alien.

cliff
DRT

 

[learflyer]

I often talked about Bruce my finacee and someone I lived with for 9 years, no I'm not divorced from Bruce, but he lives lives in my heart and I'm engaged to a dead man. I know how hard relationships can be, the man is looking for the girl the boy is looking for the girl. There is someone for everyone, main thing, take care of yourself first.

maam, you are engaged to a cadaver? Your posts are so psychotic!:nuts:

 

[KigAir]

My mom HAD to work because my father was a drunk loser! She taught me to never be dependent on anyone but myself. Best advice I ever got.

More people need to heed this advice.

 

[MissKittyKat]

Why is it so hard to believe what I write? Just because I got married at 18 does not make me a bad person. I truly believed in marriage and held that in my heart. " I was very young. I had no idea the first husband who did not lay a hand on me would actually, "beat me" after I got married. Remember I was 18.

I lost interest in my second husband, he was 12 years my senior and a bachelor he was 37 I was 24, I still love him dearly but not "in love" with him. Yes, He is a great father and a great person, but not for me, we have simular interests, but he's not into dancing, music and dining, just not much of an artist, but believe me a great father to my son (autistic) and a great person.

I wrote on this board that I was engaged to a dead man, he was a pilot and I'm still engaged to him. He died on a layover in March, I still wear his ring.

Regardless, I can't control people so I'm not sure what happened in my first marriage, remember I was 18, but I tried, believe or not, I am still in contact with him every six months or so, he works for Brahman Motors here in Florida, been there about 12 years and everytime I see him, he still apologizes for his behavihor. I still love my son's Dad, but it is a different kind of love, he just is not for me. Bruce was the love of my life, and what we had was rare, How many people do you that "have been in love for nine years"? Everytime he kissed me, my breath was taken away. We were so involved ingaged by the hip, hand holding everyday, we never felt naked around each other, we felt like we had clothes on, I mean it was that deep. When you get to that point you know that it is right, it was very rare. Please do not make comments that are unsuitable, or you know not to be true, but I had something very very special. I just wish everyone the best of luck, you will be my heart,

and I need to find someone again,take care!

 

[MissKittyKat]

Learflyer, you yourself, personally left a post for me, dated march 8th, you also called me miss twitty kat. Well my name is Tina and I do not appreciate your rude comments. I have every right to defend myself when it comes to stupid people like yourself. I'm not sure if you are 42 like myself but you sir are very rude, you should be ashamed of yourself!

 

[capt. megadeth]

I wrote on this board that I was engaged to a dead man, he was a pilot and I'm still engaged to him. He died on a layover in March, I still wear his ring.

Bruce was the love of my life, and what we had was rare, How many people do you that "have been in love for nine years"? Everytime he kissed me, my breath was taken away. We were so involved ingaged by the hip, hand holding everyday, we never felt naked around each other, we felt like we had clothes on, I mean it was that deep. When you get to that point you know that it is right, it was very rare.

WOW! I am with you.....this kind of stuff is rare. I feel like I have something like that with my fiancee....something not many people have. If something ever happened to him (which I can't imagine what you have gone through.....I would be a complete wreck), I would wear my ring too. I am sorry for your loss....I can't even imagine.

 

[learflyer]

Learflyer, you yourself, personally left a post for me, dated march 8th, you also called me miss twitty kat. Well my name is Tina and I do not appreciate your rude comments. I have every right to defend myself when it comes to stupid people like yourself. I'm not sure if you are 42 like myself but you sir are very rude, you should be ashamed of yourself!

My sincere apologies. Your post did not make sense to me. Did not know about your husband. I feel aweful!

 

[MissKittyKat]

Learflyer, I want to say what a nice gentleman you are! I know that people sometimes can't understand others on message boards, but I wanted to personally accept your apology. Bruce worked for Stanford Financial, and it has been very tuff on me, but I'm managing. He was a Hawker Captain for them and he died in Houston, so I had his body flown home to Florida. I never expected in a million years that I would go through this, and I have tremendous grief. I am sorry even to type what I typed, but I just didn't appreciate through my grief, someone making fun of me. I hope so much that nobody is walking in my shoes.

The problem is Yes, I have been divorced and can understand, no matter what the circumstances are, it is still hard, very hard.

At the time of Bruce's death, his company owed him 10,000 dollars in back pay. I called his company and asked for the checks to be sent promptly so that I could pay the bills "in his name". Well, I won't see a check, even though I'm on the death certificate. Stanford is a Texas company, therefore I'm entitled to his checks (which he made while he was alive) to pay bills.

Like I said, I wish not anyone to walk in my shoes, but the honesty is, the computer, aol, the phone company, the electric company, the water company, are in his name, yet I have not seen a check.

I'm doing ok, but Learflyer, you made my whole day! Thanks for your apology and feel free to pm me anytime,

Tina Leigh