I have to put in a word for Flower Mound / Lewisville / Highland Village / Lake Dallas areas. I live in Highland Village. I border FM to the South, and Lewisville to the east, Double Oak to the west and Lake Lewisville to the north. Lewisville ISD which are Blue Ribbon Schools, and yes we pay for them.
They are expanding the roads, and building like crazzy. They just started building our last subdivision this week. I can see the houses being built right behind my neighbors house. A new Elementary & Middle school to be built here. The new subdivision will be less in cost than my house (I bought in June 2000 for $220K a 3525 sq ft 5/3/3, but you can get better deals here).
They are building and filling a shopping center at FM2499 & FM 407. Kind of sux, but we have a McD's less than a mile from the house! Will have a movie theater, and everthing else all the bigger cities have but we will remain a small town (were land locked).
It takes me about 10 - 25 min to DFW, 15-45 to DAL, 40 min to ADS of course depending on traffic, which way you go and how you drive.
What I would recommend That once you find where you're going to be domociled, find a place to rent near by. If you have time ahead for training get down here to look around at the areas mentioned. There is good and bad about all of them including HV.
The Metroplex is large and expanding daily. The choice is you'rs to make.
I also have a great realtor who will find you a house or have your built. She works hard for her money, but she earnes every penny.
Best of Luck.