First, in a very literal sense, your own lawyer admitted that you received everything that was legally promised to you.
I do find your story disturbing, though, and not for the obvious reasons. Yes, you made one of life's stupid decisions. Yes your financial life sucks right now. The important thing, though, is what you take away from it all, and it doesn't sound like you have taken the right message from it. You are bitter and angry, dwelling on the past instead of trying to improve yourself.
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Yes, the literature did say I'd get 550 total flight training hours. Nothing in there said anything about you can only log 225 hours of flight time that the airlines actually care about. So yes, I LITERALLY got screwed by legalese...amongst other things.
To answer your question, what I have taken away from all this is a very valuable lesson. And the lesson is this: There are fundamentally evil, greedy, immoral, dishonorable, and unethical people in aviation.
When I first entered this aviation world, I was so blown away by how professional and how happy people were doing what they love. I always thought people in aviation was a cut above the rest. Yes, it was idealistic and naive on my part, but that was the lesson I learned. According to you, it cost me $101,000 to learn.
In this lesson, I realized that if I was taken, then someone else could be taken. And that became my mission. To try to reach out to those people so that they don't ever have to go through the mental and emotional anguish that I did, not to mention their hard earned money. I've reached some folks and their decision not to go to CAPT was firmly based on my experience. So as long as CAPT exists, I will continue to reach out to people who will listen. Ultimately, the decision is theirs. I can only hope they make the right decision.
Unfortunately, today, over 160 students will very likely face a similar reality that I did. If only the world read these pilot forums... *sigh*