I have never meet a pilot in real life that has been laid off yet.
Well, according to your stats, you have grand total of 20 hrs tt flying small bug smashers. That doesn't qualify you to make any statements about "reality vs negativity" within the airline business.
It seems that when someone doesn't hear what they want to hear they automatically assume the other person is just a bad apple or has a bad attitude. Flying for the airlines is not all fun and games that the movies would have you believe. At times it can be a royal pain in the a#$! It does become just a job after many years just like any other career endeavor.
We all started out with this great love affair for aviation and airplanes after being bitten by the bug...really! Strolling the terminal with four shiny stripes on your sleeve, beautiful F/A's on your arms and flying mere mortals to exotic locals in your trusty B747 were all part of the fantasy while growing up.
When you're young, living the life of a gypsy living out of a suitcase in different locations around the world and making the big $$ flying heavy metal are stuff of dreams...right? Not quite! The reality is that few pilots get to that level of making the really big $$ that the media would have you believe we all make. The ones that have made it to that level have probably lived through the many cyclical turmoils that seem to go hand in hand with the airline industry and there are many. Very few make it to retirement unscathed. Many never make it to retirement at all for various reasons. Bottom line is, if you haven't experienced it, you really have NO idea.
Those airline career years are also filled with stressful yearly checkrides and ground schools, line checks, medical checks and incredible amount of time away from home missing important family functions. The divorce rate is very high among airline pilots. Trips that conflict with your body's sleep cycles are common. Ever try to get a decent night/day sleep in a strange bed while in a strange country, eating strange food after crossing multiple time zones and just before another 16 hr duty day/night? Sometimes we don't have time to eat a decent meal. As they say, "The shine comes off the apple real fast!".
I'm all for motivating young folks to aspire to be professional pilots. I also think it's important to let them know about the down side of choosing a career in aviation. You don't jump into an airline seat straight out of flight school no matter how much money you spend. And, being furloughed, victim of bankruptcy, loss of medical, failing checkrides, downsizing and airline mergers are all very real possibilities throughout one's career.
The thing that irratates me to no end are the "future" airline/professional pilot wannabes who get on these forums and spew falsehoods as truths with regards to lifestyle/pay/problems within the industry etc, as if they would even remotely know first hand.
Why do I even participate on this forum anyway? Who knows. Every once in while a person with a legit question comes along and sometimes is given a "correct" answer by one of the more experienced pilots here. There is satisfaction in that alone.
Personally, I could really care less if the original poster paid $80,000 to obtain his ratings. It wasn't my money and if he's foolish enough to spend that kind of money because of some pipe dream the salesman gave him, I'm not sure he's the type of person I want to fly with anyway. He's already shown poor judgement. I do feel for his wife and child though as they probably have no idea what he's getting ready to put them through. I'm sure they think the airlines will be knocking down his door and he'll be a B747 Capt right after finishing training.
