TDB, you're a living example of the problem I (and others) have been pointing out. Your valid complaint is the very reason the domicile debacle needs to fail. The NJ pilots had so much lost ground to make up for in their new CBA that it just wasn't possible to accomplish all that needed to be done at this time. The continued low FO pay and their domicile experiment are the outstanding problems that , alas, were not completely correctable. Those areas saw some progress but clearly more needs to be done. The Local is keeping a close eye on the situation and will try to salvage something from the mess if circumstances force the company to reconsider. Stay tuned. I'm sorry for you and your family that things are this way.
Best Wishes,
Netjetwife