Sounds great, the ultimate family value is supporting your family, providing them with food, housing and clothing. This is not measured by the time you spend with your family, it measured by the dedication of the family unit to make the family values work. If your job requires family separation then, you must leave your family, In this business as you get more senior you more ability to control your life. Working for a supportive company makes it even better. But no one in this business should complain about family separation, it comes with the job. BTW I left my wife for nine months while she was pregnant to fly in Vietnam, is my caring for my family less than yours because I left her for nine months?