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hgi2006

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So about a month ago, my wife asked if I thought she should get a tattoo. We talked about it and by the end of the discussion, she didn't want one anymore (horray!). I come home from a five day trip, and as she's making dinner, what do I notice as she bends over? A lower back tattoo! Mmmm, ok. I say nothing, and the night goes on. We go to bed, and she wears a t-shirt to bed (not entirely uncommon). She asks me to get up and take a shower first the next morning, and I do. After I get dressed and go downstairs, she gets up and showers, gets dressed etc.

After being home a full 24 hours it's obvious that she doesn't plan to tell me about her new tattoo anytime soon, so I tell her I saw it. She was embarrassed and says she was going to show me later. I asked her who she got it with, and she tells me she went alone.

What do you guys think? Is she full of crap, and maybe is seeing someone on the side? I just have a hard time believing that she got this tattoo alone, especially after decided she didn't want one. It sort of sounds like a few drinks later, she ended up in the tattoo shop ,if you ask me.

Thoughts? Ideas? I guess more and more women are tattooed these days, eh? This is a 43 year old mother of two!
 
hgi2006 said:
So about a month ago, my wife asked if I thought she should get a tattoo. We talked about it and by the end of the discussion, she didn't want one anymore (horray!). I come home from a five day trip, and as she's making dinner, what do I notice as she bends over? A lower back tattoo! Mmmm, ok. I say nothing, and the night goes on. We go to bed, and she wears a t-shirt to bed (not entirely uncommon). She asks me to get up and take a shower first the next morning, and I do. After I get dressed and go downstairs, she gets up and showers, gets dressed etc.

After being home a full 24 hours it's obvious that she doesn't plan to tell me about her new tattoo anytime soon, so I tell her I saw it. She was embarrassed and says she was going to show me later. I asked her who she got it with, and she tells me she went alone.

What do you guys think? Is she full of crap, and maybe is seeing someone on the side? I just have a hard time believing that she got this tattoo alone, especially after decided she didn't want one. It sort of sounds like a few drinks later, she ended up in the tattoo shop ,if you ask me.

Thoughts? Ideas? I guess more and more women are tattooed these days, eh? This is a 43 year old mother of two!
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Mmmmm. Im not so sure that she went "alone" to get it. Why would she want one at 43 anyway? I dunno...Id say that she needs to watch this video. Hopefully she hasnt been to Jamaica lately.

http://gprime.net/video.php/tattooremover
 
This is flight info.... not wife info.
 
Where there is smoke there is fire

Feel for you, bro.

When the wife doesn't tell her husband about the tramp stamp, it means her mind is elsewhere already.
Send HER packing. She wants to play sorority girl, have her do it away from your kids. We all know what's the mentality/mindset of the lower-back "Tramp Stamp". You know it, I know it, she knows it and all her friends know it.

Whatever you do, DO NOT kiss her A$$ and bend to her will. She doesn't respect you now, she will respect you even less later if you go "OK, honey."
Don't play 'insecure macho-boy'. Play it cool and have her hit the bricks. Throw her out if you have to. There is no room in a marriage for that kind of BS.

Just be sure to have your 'womanese-to-english' dictionary handy when she start to spill the BS about how she 'needs to find herself' or how she 'needs her own space' or how you 'don't meet her emotional needs'.

Been there, dude. Dating only foreign women now, and LOVING IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :pimp: :D

American women get their head filled so full of BS on a DAILY basis from 'the View' Oprah, etc, that it is impossible for them to stay grounded in reality.

Her mind is elsewhere and she'll twist things in that typical woman brain of hers that she will convice herself that it is YOUR FAULT she needs to "find herself".

I've heard stories like these a hundred times before. They are always the same.

Don't EVER believe a woman's words. It is only her actions that count. Only actions, remember that! Words are meaningless babble out of a woman's pie hole. If she is "In to you", her actions will show that.

Women operate by feelings and emotions, not written or spoken words. Feelings.

If her feelings for you are positive her actions will be positive. If her feelings for you are 'distant' she will ACT distant from you. It is unavoidable. It is how they are programmed. It only matters how a woman ACTS towards you...not her words.

Get yourself a pre-paid legal plan NOW. Costs about $100-$150/month and will strengthen your position, because in the back of your brain, you won't be worried about the financial cost of the divorce proceedings, if it heads that way. Trust me on this.

Would you stay with your wife if it wasn't for the kids, after this stunt?

Didn't think so. Go get yourself a pre-paid legal plan.

Good luck. PM me if you want to rap. Feel for you, bro.
 
Hopefully its not as bad as what Kommuter dog presented. Although I cant help but agree with what he said about these women. I believe that you disagreed with the tattoo thing....or at least showed some skepticism with it. Funny how she just went and bypassed what you thought and got it done. Worst part...she never told you flat out before you found it yourself. Makes yah wonder what/who influenced her to do make that decision....especially at her age??? I dont know dude...see if her other girlfriends have the tramp stamp too.

Whats kind of tramp stamp did she get?

Anyway, I think that you should head on down and get a stud on your tounge and see what she has to say about that when she first notices it. If yah wanna go all out, get a Prince Albert while your at it. Im thinking that you would be even with her now. And making her mind wonder whats up with you!
 
I never seem to be amazed at how many people are into the "tattoo" scene these days, it's become so mainstream that individuals who don't have them are becoming the fringe in society!
 
Maybe she's bored. maybe she is looking to add some excitement to her life and she wants to feel young again. There's really only one reason a woman feels the need for a tramp stamp. She wants people to notice her backside.
 
hgi, from your post you said you and your wife spoke about the tat, and by the end of the conversation 'she' decided that she didn't want one.. so you didn't tell her not to get one, did you? I don't see what is the big deal about a tat, maybe it makes her feel young.. do you want your wife to be happy? If so, you should support her decisions... I don't agree with her hiding the tat from you, but that's another issue..

'kommutrdog' I like foreign women too, mainly eastern europe (x-wife) but you know what, they have problems too..!
 
tathepilot said:
hgi, from your post you said you and your wife spoke about the tat, and by the end of the conversation 'she' decided that she didn't want one.. so you didn't tell her not to get one, did you? I don't see what is the big deal about a tat, maybe it makes her feel young.. do you want your wife to be happy? If so, you should support her decisions... I don't agree with her hiding the tat from you, but that's another issue..

'kommutrdog' I like foreign women too, mainly eastern europe (x-wife) but you know what, they have problems too..!
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No, I'd never tell her not to get one. It's her body. What I resent is her hiding it, and then telling me she went alone to get it. It seems highly unlikely.
 
Why does it seem so unlikely that she got it alone? Please don't take it personal but I sense some trust issues.. Do you trust her..??
 
A female friend has told me that girls will cheat in a relationship when they feel in their mind "it's over" and that there's no future. Yet they will stay in the relationship until something better comes along with cheating on the side.

Be careful guys!!
 
Amish,

Very true. Once a woman feels it's over, she will hang in until something better comes along. They need to build up resentment and disdain for the guy, so in their mind, she had to leave. It can't possible be her fault, can it. He is not meeting her emotional needs.

If the wife wanted a tattoo to make her feel young and alive again, shouldn't she have shared that with her husband and alleged partner?

It's a tramp stamp. We all know what it represents and the implied meaning behind it:

"Please look at my a$$! And if you play your cards right you might see more."

Sorry for the brutal honesty. G

I agree with the other poster. Get a PI when you are on a trip. Just be prepared for what he may find.
 
tathepilot said:
Why does it seem so unlikely that she got it alone? Please don't take it personal but I sense some trust issues.. Do you trust her..??
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I can appreciate trying to see all angles, but face the reality:

Women don't go to the bathroom by themselves. Do you really think she went and got a permanent, marriage-straining tat on her own?

Don't be naive. Where there is smoke...

NOTHING a woman says means anything. It's how she acts towards you that matters. ALWAYS.
 
Trust your gut. It NEVER fails.

Sometimes things don't seem or feel right, yet we can't explain why we feel this way. Our primitive instincts should override our rational thoughts. There is something registering subconsciously that we aren't immediately figuring out in our rational, developed mind.

You may dismiss things which seem rationally copasetic, but our primitive instincts can pick up on subtle body movements, facial expressions, gestures, etc. which can produce these feelings of uneasiness. They were there to help guide us long before we learned to communicate verbally in a logical manner. This allows us to be more easily deceived verbally.
 
Women with that bulls-eye above their butt are essentially asking to be treated with less respect! If I'm in a good mood, I'll help em out with their request....Those are the best midnight booty calls!

Mr. I.
 
Did you ask her what was up with it and why she did it anyway?

What were the conversations like? Did you get the feeling there was something "hiding", something she's not telling you? I agree with trusting your gut if something really seems fishy. Are there any other signs that there's something going on? (Check cell phone call/text records, etc?)

It could just be a mid-life crisis. Women have 'em too. A 45-year old guy goes and buys a 'vette, that doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating.

It could be something else, and maybe she didn't go alone........

Without knowing either of you personally, it's really pretty hard to tell. Listen to your gut and what's being said in words and actions.
 
hgi2006 said:
So about a month ago, my wife asked if I thought she should get a tattoo. We talked about it and by the end of the discussion, she didn't want one anymore (horray!). I come home from a five day trip, and as she's making dinner, what do I notice as she bends over? A lower back tattoo! Mmmm, ok. I say nothing, and the night goes on. We go to bed, and she wears a t-shirt to bed (not entirely uncommon). She asks me to get up and take a shower first the next morning, and I do. After I get dressed and go downstairs, she gets up and showers, gets dressed etc.

After being home a full 24 hours it's obvious that she doesn't plan to tell me about her new tattoo anytime soon, so I tell her I saw it. She was embarrassed and says she was going to show me later. I asked her who she got it with, and she tells me she went alone.

What do you guys think? Is she full of crap, and maybe is seeing someone on the side? I just have a hard time believing that she got this tattoo alone, especially after decided she didn't want one. It sort of sounds like a few drinks later, she ended up in the tattoo shop ,if you ask me.

Thoughts? Ideas? I guess more and more women are tattooed these days, eh? This is a 43 year old mother of two!
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Would you post a photo of it ?
 
Hate to say it, but this guy is right on the money...

kommutrdog said:
Feel for you, bro.

When the wife doesn't tell her husband about the tramp stamp, it means her mind is elsewhere already.
Send HER packing. She wants to play sorority girl, have her do it away from your kids. We all know what's the mentality/mindset of the lower-back "Tramp Stamp". You know it, I know it, she knows it and all her friends know it.

Whatever you do, DO NOT kiss her A$$ and bend to her will. She doesn't respect you now, she will respect you even less later if you go "OK, honey."
Don't play 'insecure macho-boy'. Play it cool and have her hit the bricks. Throw her out if you have to. There is no room in a marriage for that kind of BS.

Just be sure to have your 'womanese-to-english' dictionary handy when she start to spill the BS about how she 'needs to find herself' or how she 'needs her own space' or how you 'don't meet her emotional needs'.

Been there, dude. Dating only foreign women now, and LOVING IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :pimp: :D

American women get their head filled so full of BS on a DAILY basis from 'the View' Oprah, etc, that it is impossible for them to stay grounded in reality.

Her mind is elsewhere and she'll twist things in that typical woman brain of hers that she will convice herself that it is YOUR FAULT she needs to "find herself".

I've heard stories like these a hundred times before. They are always the same.

Don't EVER believe a woman's words. It is only her actions that count. Only actions, remember that! Words are meaningless babble out of a woman's pie hole. If she is "In to you", her actions will show that.

Women operate by feelings and emotions, not written or spoken words. Feelings.

If her feelings for you are positive her actions will be positive. If her feelings for you are 'distant' she will ACT distant from you. It is unavoidable. It is how they are programmed. It only matters how a woman ACTS towards you...not her words.

Get yourself a pre-paid legal plan NOW. Costs about $100-$150/month and will strengthen your position, because in the back of your brain, you won't be worried about the financial cost of the divorce proceedings, if it heads that way. Trust me on this.

Would you stay with your wife if it wasn't for the kids, after this stunt?

Didn't think so. Go get yourself a pre-paid legal plan.

Good luck. PM me if you want to rap. Feel for you, bro.
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Coming to think of it.... Altough most girls I slept with with a trampstamp on their backs where about 20 years younger then you wife, they all had issues big time.... Connection there maybe? weird....

But I have to say, your wife going behind your back to get a trampstamp? I do not thing that she went and did it together with someone else, but the fact that she is hiding it (was hiding it rather) from you does tell me there is a lot more going on...

Confront her with your fears, ask her what you want too know and look her in they eyes... You will know...

women......

FD
 

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