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Insights from NW_Pilot's esteemed career of, what was it, "female human hunting", or "playing with the female humans"

I'm sure it's your favorite thing to talk about over a glass of Romulan Ale at the Trek conventions.
 
svcta said:
Insights from NW_Pilot's esteemed career of, what was it, "female human hunting", or "playing with the female humans"

I'm sure it's your favorite thing to talk about over a glass of Romulan Ale at the Trek conventions.
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Sorry, I don't like star trek!!! But Humans are a Spectator Sport!!
 
I would get a Private Investagator and prep yourself for some crappy news. Chances are go with your gut feeling-but get facts. Then get a laywer.
 
I wouldn't go with the private investigator, because what if your gut is wrong? That would be a pretty awkward conversation: "Honey, you got a tattoo, I really didn't trust you when you said you got it alone, so I hired someone to follow you."
 
Let me get this straight. Your woman got a tat, so you assume she's cheating on you?

Maybe she just always wanted one. Maybe she's having a mid life crisis (yes, women have them too).

Here's an idea: save the money of a PI and TALK TO HER ABOUT IT!!!

If she withdraws or doesn't want to talk about it, then get suspicious and call the PI.
 
414Flyer said:
I am not married and I would see it as a big deal, if she said she had not decided to do something, then snuck around and did it, and didnt say anything about it.

Because we all know women go totally apesh*t if a guy does that, and will bring it up for the next 20 years anytime she is upset.
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Very true man. Right on the money. They will rub your nose right in whatever you did for 50 years and a genuine attitude about being sorry will only make it worse.
 
Save your money and screw the PI. This your wife not your damn girlfriend. Talk to her instead getting on some online forum and talking to strangers. If you talk to her and you are getting a certain feeling then disregard my first sentence.
 
Hahaha! That's the best, especially when Nick shows up at the door and she was just looking at pictures of the vaca with Charlie with that gay women's fu*k music playing.
 
I dont know why I did not find this thread before. A little background for you. I own a tatto shop in Ausitn and have been doing tattoos for almost 10 years on and off. I went back to doing it full time on my days off and see many different people with many different reasons for their tattoos..having said that. We see lots of woman come in by themselves to get tattoos. They will also come in with their friends/boyfriends/husbands whatever..There are many reasons people get them. Names of people that dies, things that remind them of something in their life and sometimes, yes sometimes they get them just because they have always wanted them. For some reason, the lower back "tramp stamp" tattoo is very popular and has been for the last 10 years. We occasionally get someone to come in with regrets but that is rare. As for her getting one at 43 years old...good for her. I wish she would have talked about it with her husband first but at that age, she is sure what she wants and more than likely not doing it for any side reason needing a PI. While she did not talk about it first, be supportive and tell her she is sexy. Maybe she did it to get a little attention and to feel sexy. I hear that alot..."I am getting this so I feel a little sexy". Try giving her a compliment about it and I am sure it will go a long ways. I really would not worry about her cheating on you. Just talk to her, smile and give some support and things will be fine.

my 2 cents.
 
FlightInfo membership?

...Ten dollars a year.

Lower back tattoo?

...Two hundred dollars.

Asking for Martial advice from the sociopaths on FI?

...Priceless.

Good call on the counseling. Don't listen to us morons. Good luck - I hope y'all come out of this stronger.
 
Does she have any facial jewelery, nose piercings etc. aka "slut shrapnel"?
 
LJDRVR said:
FlightInfo membership?

...Ten dollars a year.

Lower back tattoo?

...Two hundred dollars.

Asking for Martial advice from the sociopaths on FI?

...Priceless.

Good call on the counseling. Don't listen to us morons. Good luck - I hope y'all come out of this stronger.
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My sentiments exactly!

With advice like that (previous posts), no wonder the divorce rate is so high.

Good luck to you ~ I think an honest conversation will take you a long way.
 
The people stereotyping women that gets tattoos as sluts etc. validates Australians being glad that they got the prisoners and we got the damn puritans!
 
FlyUnited said:
Amish must have been HIGHLY burned somewhere in his past. I'm sorry that things went so terribly wrong for you sir.

To the original poster, best of luck! I don't think it was much more than the fact that she really wanted the tat and you really didn't so she waited until you were out of town and did it. Don't put so much thought into it, it's not such a big deal. Life's too short.
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Captain X said:
You're not the only one who got that impression.
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I know it sounds harsh, but the chicks in NYC will eat you alive. competition is "stiff" and Manhattan girls are on the up and up with relationship games. Perhaps the Southern Bells are more candid and honest. But I can tell you from experience and from others that the therapist is not your friend. They are there to appease the poor little girl in front of her and tell her what she wants to hear. All therapists are not create dequal. In fact, (at least in NY and possibly all over) one does not even need a license or HS diploma for that matter to place a thearpy sign on their doorstep. Anyone can "become" a therapist. Sure there are licensde ones who may possess a background, but look at it like this. Most girls seek out a female thera[ist who is really no more than a paid girlfriend of thiers. Coaching them on why your man is wrong and you're right.

Forthose optimists out there, just keep an open eye when your partner needs to seek out therapy in a relationship. The therapist will brain wash your girl into thinking all sorts of incorrect things.

Understand that she presents HER side of the story and HER needs, etc. to this partial individual being paid to help her out and MAINTAIN a client. If she walks in with a problem, the therpist is going to acknowledge and validate her concerns while gaining her the threapists trust and confidence.

ehhhhh... whats the use.

What's that saying about three things being cheaper to rent?
 
Save the PI Money.

Insure her for at least a mil.

Don't tell her but leave the paperwork where she finds it.

She'll come clean; if she doesn't, evacuate the premises.
 
booo said:
Save the PI Money.

Insure her for at least a mil.

Don't tell her but leave the paperwork where she finds it.

She'll come clean; if she doesn't, evacuate the premises.
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Funny stuff man.
 
It has been months... Don't leave us hangin'... What's the verdict?? Hope all is well - trust is number one. Number two is me hitting the head with a cuban in one hand and the sports section in the other... Sometimes sex is overrated. Nothing is better than a good BM...
 
Next girlfriend I have that thinks she needs a tatoo, I will encourage her to get the most ridiculous, stupid tattoo she can get. Then she will regret it even more someday.

Owned.
 
yawdamp said:
It has been months... Don't leave us hangin'... What's the verdict?? Hope all is well - trust is number one. Number two is me hitting the head with a cuban in one hand and the sports section in the other... Sometimes sex is overrated. Nothing is better than a good BM...
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So, which crew meal do you want Captain? And no, I haven't heard your story about flying Big Berthas during the Great War and how you chased the Kaiser off San Juan Hill this leg yet.
 
kommutrdog said:
Feel for you, bro.

When the wife doesn't tell her husband about the tramp stamp, it means her mind is elsewhere already.
Send HER packing. She wants to play sorority girl, have her do it away from your kids. We all know what's the mentality/mindset of the lower-back "Tramp Stamp". You know it, I know it, she knows it and all her friends know it.

Whatever you do, DO NOT kiss her A$$ and bend to her will. She doesn't respect you now, she will respect you even less later if you go "OK, honey."
Don't play 'insecure macho-boy'. Play it cool and have her hit the bricks. Throw her out if you have to. There is no room in a marriage for that kind of BS.

Just be sure to have your 'womanese-to-english' dictionary handy when she start to spill the BS about how she 'needs to find herself' or how she 'needs her own space' or how you 'don't meet her emotional needs'.

Been there, dude. Dating only foreign women now, and LOVING IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :pimp: :D

American women get their head filled so full of BS on a DAILY basis from 'the View' Oprah, etc, that it is impossible for them to stay grounded in reality.

Her mind is elsewhere and she'll twist things in that typical woman brain of hers that she will convice herself that it is YOUR FAULT she needs to "find herself".

I've heard stories like these a hundred times before. They are always the same.

Don't EVER believe a woman's words. It is only her actions that count. Only actions, remember that! Words are meaningless babble out of a woman's pie hole. If she is "In to you", her actions will show that.

Women operate by feelings and emotions, not written or spoken words. Feelings.

If her feelings for you are positive her actions will be positive. If her feelings for you are 'distant' she will ACT distant from you. It is unavoidable. It is how they are programmed. It only matters how a woman ACTS towards you...not her words.

Get yourself a pre-paid legal plan NOW. Costs about $100-$150/month and will strengthen your position, because in the back of your brain, you won't be worried about the financial cost of the divorce proceedings, if it heads that way. Trust me on this.

Would you stay with your wife if it wasn't for the kids, after this stunt?

Didn't think so. Go get yourself a pre-paid legal plan.

Good luck. PM me if you want to rap. Feel for you, bro.
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I don't know kommutrdog and he doesn't know me, but he has my relationship to my exwife down to a tee in his post on this thread.

I wish it hadn't taken me so long to figure it out.
 
Metro752 said:
Next girlfriend I have that thinks she needs a tatoo, I will encourage her to get the most ridiculous, stupid tattoo she can get. Then she will regret it even more someday.

Owned.
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Even better, make it your name. Simply don't get more owned than that.
 
I have a tramp stamp (yes, this is what I call it) but my fiancee respects me as a human being. I got it during one of my weaker (read: drunker) moments and I don't try to hide the fact that I've done this.
 
Your issue isn't about your wife's tattoo. You issue is whether or not you are married to an honest woman. "Trust" is a killer.

On the other hand......instead of bitching about it, take advantage of it. Tell her the Tramp Stamp is hot and you'll expect to be seeing it up close and personal every night.

(But I am concerned that of all the possiblities of getting a tattoo....she knowingly chose the one that demeans women the most. That's kind of sad.)
 

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