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It's hard to turn something down you never had.
So far you have the luxury of living on ideals: not married and no kids (that you know of). I am not saying your marriage will or will not work... but you're like the brand new FO that thinks he will be at UPS or UAL....in short order... dreaming about how wonderful its going to be....
Well... is he going to stay at home or not? Don't you think you should know these things before you get married?
Oh no.... we shouldn't have to give up what we want for the kids. Cause we want what we want when we want it...
So then, are you going to stay at home with the kids?
(the kids you plan on having, cause you do not have any now...)
Capt. if you and future hubby don't either one stay home wtih the kids, put them in the best day care money can buy. Remember they pick your old folks home.
Pad change in 3-2-1...
If you're going to have kids only to have a succesion of day care agencies raise them for you, then why bother having children at all? It 's not fair to the kid to have total strangers raise them. And some of the things you'll miss out on ,,, For what?? To say you fly a jet??? GMAFB!!![]()
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Hey know it all. I actually AM married (in my mind and heart). We don't need a overpriced wedding day and a piece of paper to show our committment to eachother. We've been together 6 years and actually we may NOT ever get legally married because personally I don't agree with a lot of what traditional marriage entails.
We have lived together since we were dating 8 months. All of our finances are tied together as if we are married.
Believe me, the honeymoon is over and guess what? He is still the only person I ever want to be with. You have crossed the line PUNK. You don't know anything about my relationship. You can only wish you had the type of relationship I have with my honey.
I trust him completely. I don't have to have a ring on my finger (well...actually I do have a beautiful engagement ring) to feel secure in my relationship.
You're so clueless as to your image of who I am or what you think I think (oooh aaah.....it's going to be soooo wonderful with my white picket fence....GMAFB!), it's actually quite entertaining.
No, for now he is not going to stay at home. If he ever CHOOSES to, it's fine by me. It's going to be 100% his decision exclusively.
Are you high? I'm making $150K this year. I am not giving up a multi million dollar job!
Oh and by the way...since you are a little slooooow and didn't catch on on the other thread....I am going to have a baby in April (and......GASP! It's not an oops baby) and.........SIT DOWN.......HOLD YOUR BREATH!!!........I'm not married! GASP!
Oh my Gawd! Are you going to give me your ideals about how bad that is? I'm sure in your little chauvanist dreaming about the good old June Cleaver days mind, I'll probably be a terrible mother. We will be terrible parents because we didn't sign a piece of paper and we are going to bid opposite schedules so our child can have a parent at home at all times. I mean, not married, not quitting my job.....I should just start popping Ritalin now and get the kid started early!!!!!!!!![]()
P.S. Anyone wanting to start a commentary with your opinions about my life. Don't bother. I don't give a frog's fat a$$ what any of you all think about my private life (especially Rez O'Chauvanist).
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3,2,1.....
AND THERE HE IS! I'm starting to think that chick on the other thread is right Rez. You are on FI an awful lot....seems to me like you are neglecting those lovely kids of yours.....
I am going to have a baby in April.
1. Until you realize the financial benefits...
2. You don't like traditional marriage because you see it as a patriarch dominated institution which you fear...
3. Not according to the IRS....
4. I am not gay. I don't want to know anything about a relationship with your "honey" baby.
5. I am sure you instructed him: when where and how to obtain that ring...
6. I thought your uterus swallowed conceived eggs and sent them to places unknown to science... like a black hole.... but congratulations.... if your attitides towards parenting and motherhood don't change when you deliver I will feel bad for your child.
7. Who cares if your married or not. Just love your kids by sticking with your manbot and don't put your wants above your child needs...
8. Sorry sister.... you post we reply. We post your reply. Now put your brown slacks on and get to work woman!
Woke up... took em to the bus stop...pick em up from the bus stop...paid bills, made dinner and put em to bed...
Can your manbot do that?
Mega puts out everybody.![]()
Congrats for real though. :beer:
Speaking of sucking ............. what's the difference between a bonus and a penis?
You'll have no trouble getting your wife to blow your bonus.
Gup
1. Financial benefits? Ya, I'm going to get married for "financial benefits". Greeeeeat reason to get married.![]()
2. Oh boy....here we go....making ASSumptions about what you think you know. I don't like traditional marriage because it makes you too legally responsible for someone else. No thanks!
3. Thank Gawd! I want the IRS as minimally involved with our money as possible.
4. Good. Because it's none of your business yet you still comment on it as if it is.
5. LOL! My man has a mind of his own...thanks. He picked it AND picked when and if he ever gave it to me but nice try.
6. Thanks! I thought so too but I guess God wants to show me the joy of motherhood. We didn't think it would happen so fast. Once again, though, you really don't truly know my feelings about any of that stuff. You think you know, but your ASSumptions based on my posts are incorrect for the most part with regards to parenting.
7. We won't.
8. I'm at work this week EVIL MAN!![]()
What about kids? Are parents too legally responsible for them. If you were to have issues wth your manbot and seperated...(not legally...but physically, emotionally and spirtually...ok...forget I said spirtually...) he would have no rights to see the child? I don't know I am not a lawyer... but it seems that from a civil perspective.. being married is benefical to the child...
By the way, how long have you been married? How old are your kids?
Oh and by the way...since you are a little slooooow and didn't catch on on the other thread....I am going to have a baby in April (and......GASP! It's not an oops baby) and.........SIT DOWN.......HOLD YOUR BREATH!!!........I'm not married! GASP!
Oh and by the way...since you are a little slooooow and didn't catch on on the other thread....I am going to have a baby in April (and......GASP! It's not an oops baby) and.........SIT DOWN.......HOLD YOUR BREATH!!!........I'm not married! GASP!
Actually, the math dosen't add up, so I think your good there, but any dought, a home maturnity test can be completed in two days utilizing overnight shipping via FEDEX!!!!:laugh:
In all seriousness, congrats. Please don't name him JET....