Tittyjet,
Obviously, you don't know me or you wouldn't be calling me names, and assuming what my management style is. In fact, I have a pretty loyal following. However, that's not the point.
The point is, I have had several whiny pilots come into my office and complain about other pilots. Captains complaining about first officers, first officers complaining about captains. I've heard it all, but it always amazed me how pilots love to stab each-other in the back and then twist the knife. You see it on this forum.
My whole point to my post was that the FO, in this case, was twisting the knife big time in the CA's back, but everyone was blaming the CA. I believe in an airplane being operated by the whole crew, except for short CRM (Crew Rest Management) breaks. However, I wouldn't expect one of my crewmembers to hang me, or anyone else, out to dry.
Thank you for your input, though. Maybe I can learn from your input on how to better express my thoughts without causing you to call me names.