I agree. It is a team effort not a one pilot show.
As an FO, I love a partner/captain to set a humble and grateful tone on day one. You can be the quirckiest dude on earth, but if you are easy going and willing to help get the job done without the tude, it will be a great tour. Plus you won't get a bad rep.
The "I don't do that, because I'm the Captain!" types are very few and far between, but they are very memorable.
"Ya hear me TOOLBOX?" "Catch the hint?"
Exactly, I consider myself a fairly "cool" individual. (Meaning I have a lot of things in my life outside of flying, and 9 outta 10friends aren't pilots.) I don't care if your the biggest nerd on the planet as long as your easy to get along with in the plane. I've flown with guys in my age group who i thought would have been easy to fly with. Only to find out they annoy the hell outta me.
I don't mind a guy who does every little thing by the book etc.. As long as they don't treat me like a know-nothing SIC.. Or think they know everything.
Example...I usually turn on the Landing lights when we get down to approach stages of flt. Just a habit from airline days.
The X has a pretty bright set of recog. lights. That basically do the same thing as Landing lights. This one guy asks why I do that since the recog. lights do the same thing. I told him just force of habit since the other planes I flew for 5000 hours didn't have recogs. He turns the landing lights off and says we don't need them on.
I guess that was the end of that.. Even though it hurt nothing to have the landing lights on..
Small things like that annoy the hell outta me.