Head to PA north of ABE or north of the Lehigh Valley if not somewhere in the Lehigh Valley itself. Although the LV housing is going up. Above Blue Mountain, the southern part of the Poconos you will find good $$$ on homes/land and schools. This is the area I will have to buy in if things ever settle out for me. I've always been targeting CAL for EWR, JB for JFK all the while hoping US Air works for PHL, the area I mentioned above works for all three for a 1.5 to 2 hour commute.
From the LV area you'll have routes 80, 78, 22, 278 which get you to the EWR area which gets you to either the bridges or tunnels to get to JFK. Traffic??? All depends on what time you leave. I spent several years flying traffic in the PHL and NJ/NY areas.
If you want to stay in NJ then south of route 195 will get you lower $$$ homes but not by that much unless you clear out some pine barren land and build. North of 195, Morristown, Basking ridge, Princeton, Brunswick would be ideal but forget about it in terms of price unless your wife is an AT&T or J&J exec. The same thing for bucks county PA. Not a house under 1/2 a mil to be found. This is where I grew up and will never be able to afford to live here.
The area KC10 talks about is great too but I think PA taxes are better than NJ although I could be wrong.
Good Luck, if you have specific questions about towns or anything let me know.
From the LV area you'll have routes 80, 78, 22, 278 which get you to the EWR area which gets you to either the bridges or tunnels to get to JFK. Traffic??? All depends on what time you leave. I spent several years flying traffic in the PHL and NJ/NY areas.
If you want to stay in NJ then south of route 195 will get you lower $$$ homes but not by that much unless you clear out some pine barren land and build. North of 195, Morristown, Basking ridge, Princeton, Brunswick would be ideal but forget about it in terms of price unless your wife is an AT&T or J&J exec. The same thing for bucks county PA. Not a house under 1/2 a mil to be found. This is where I grew up and will never be able to afford to live here.
The area KC10 talks about is great too but I think PA taxes are better than NJ although I could be wrong.
Good Luck, if you have specific questions about towns or anything let me know.