What I think I'm more worried about is not getting a degree, but when should I get a degree? I want it before I'm 30 years old (in 13 years) but are not going to go right to university right when I finish high school. I'm just not ready nor know what I want to take. What if I instead, got my privates probably next spring, get all my other licenses like the multi engine, COMM, etc then worked for somebody? I think that would be good because then I can get paid for flying then I would go to university at the same time because this time, I will have the money and won't have to learn 2 hard things at the same time. What about getting a diploma? I may get that and then get a degree later on. Either way, I'm not putting off flying for college and because that is just how my brain works. I'm not going to learn 2 really hard things at the same time. Probably going to get bashed as usual for this. Either way, I am going to do to university and get a degree, it just won't be right when I get out of high school and I will peruse all my licenses first because that is my priority. How does this sound? I just have a feeling that this is what I should I do.
I am going to stop asking these kind of questions here because the many different opinions of people are just too much for me. Between the 1001 answers here and my parents answers, I don't know who to believe anymore. Instead of trying to find an answer, I have done worse and have gotten my brain into thinking overload. From now on, I'm only going to go to either my parents, or real life pilots for questions like this. Your answers are all really appreciated and I thank all of you for responding so well to my questions, but I realize that it just does me no good to seek trouble of finding 1001 opinions. It just leaves me worst off in the end.
I was saying to my parents last night, I just want to be prepared. I don't want to be unprepared for the big picture. I want to have a happy life when I'm older with the job I want, a happy marriage and everything. I have seen how not being prepared and not making decisions to late in life have destroyed peoples lives. I want to get all the worry out of the way and over with so that I won't have to go through it later on. The thing is, I'm looking too much at the big picture. I need to look at what I need to do now and worry about crossing that bridge when I need to. Its just my character. Prepare for things. Don't do the test if you haven't studied and then fail. That is what I'm trying to put my future as. I don't want to be too late. This is where I wish I would start putting more of my faith in the big guy up above us. Only he knows what is the right answer for me and what is the right way for me. I need to start listening more to him, and less to the world.
So for now, I am going to put off all this silly worry, only worry about getting my privates, and worry about getting a degree when I will really need it and know more of what I will do. And I'm just going to concentrate on flying for now because that is what I love. I'm not going to let something ruin it for me.