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I'm just glad I'm not the only one who is tired of her...(posts that is)
Why don't you and FlexW just exchange numbers and talk all day like other good wives?
Nobody was challenging diversity, she brought that into the conversation. That is just like someone bringing race into a situation that race was not an issue before. It was inappropriate, and insinuates that the people conversing with you are sexist. That is where I take offense. Now if I misread or misunderstood her message, than I appologize(to both you and her).
To those that have made inappropriate or sexually offensive comments to these ladies, I am not defending you, and that is something the moderators should do a better job of policing. It is uncalled for and I personally don't condone it.
The fact that anyone here would believe you are actually a wife rather than one of our pilots is a joke.
Wow Clydefastly, you take me and apparantly yourself way too seriously! I guess everytime someone makes a good point I don't like but I can find one post to counteract that wisdom, I can discredit everyting they say too. Sounds to me like you are more upset about the other issues I brought up (which interestingly no one wants to debate despite their truth and relevenace to the matters at hand).
If I thought it would actually matter, I could go quote by quote here and point out to you that thru both this board and private messages, my status as a woman and nonpilot has VERY MUCH been an issue in regards to whether or not I am someone who has a right to make a point. But I've also been told my posts are long enought as it is... hahaha
If you, as you say, are truly interested in apologizing for doing me wrong, don't just take my word for it -- there is proof. Why don't you a search on my username -- I have only commented in 3 or 4 different threads so it shouldn't be too hard to go thru. Go back and read the posts by other who point blank say I can't possibly be a woman becuase my posts are too intelligent. Or other posts where I am told to get back to the kitchen. Or posts where some point out they are soooo happy their wife actually has a job, as if I am somehow less capable of being a part of the conversation just because I must be bored. Or how bout the post where the writer was all to happy I was riled up -- made it sexy for him. Or yeah the one who suggested I need to get out things from my bedside drawer as if to insinuate I must be sexualy frustrated instead of having a right to be a part of the conversation. I am not the one who made this about sexism. AT ALL.
As for NJW, well doing a search on her might take a bit more time but I can assure you that there is plenty of evidence to substantiate a claim that she is subject to dismissal of her points simply because of her sex. I guess you'll have to apologize to her too. There are posts and pms that POINT BLANK point out that women and non-pilots' opinions DON'Treally count, both to her and myself.
I'll admit that the specific post you are referring to might be a little on the crude side, but it was written out of ultimate frustration of reading more than enough posts insulting either myself or NJW in a thread that actually could have provided real discussion or solutions or at the very least information. Now maybe there is something wrong with my sense of humor but I actually thought it was quite mild and slightly funny... Sorry you took an extemely disproprtionate amount of offense to it.
As for the inevitable continuance of inappropriate or sexually offensive remarks, I lay much more on the side of freedom of speech than repression. Personally I don't need the assistance of any moderator to be my knight in shining armor. Far more impressive to read the posts of others who point out the obvious to their coworkers. I enjoy the opportunity to let people reveal their true colors and then I accordingly, after enough evidence, can make my own judgement call on whether or not theirs is a viewpoint I care to consider.
As for NJW, I think she rocks. I am beggining to think she is a glutton for punishment, but I admire her moxie. Privately, I have expressed to her that I think any effort I put in to making a difference here is futile (in part becuase of some of the sexist banter) but she has encouraged me to continue to speak up where I feel I can bring meaningful discussion.
I have tried to pratice restraint not only in what I post, how I post or how often I post. But when you feel passionatly about something that is a hard thing to do. But I do think Clydefastly after enough research you will find you do owe me an apology. It was others, not me who made this about anatomy.
That said wasn't this thread supposed to be a joke? Or is the joke on me?
For the record, Clyde, I wasn't speaking for FW but I think she'll share my thoughts and hopes. She seems to have concerns about the lack of info the Flex pilots are getting and I hope that situation will be discussed.
Here's a topic I'd like to explore: CABs, PACs, etc...those pilots who represent and inform the rest of the pilot group. How are they chosen? How long do they serve? How effective are they at presenting the pilot viewpoint? How often do they report and in what format? And how does the pilotgroup, as a whole, know that they are representing the interests of the majority? What can you do if they don't?
..How about a refresher for you. You can use the "Edit post" interface to add any information you might have left off of a previous post.....
Thanks, Clyde! Your apology took guts and I respect you for it. It bodes well for a calm, informed discussion of the issues we face as a community of pilots and family members. It's possible to respectfully talk about the differences between the frac groups because we share lots of common ground. We all want what is best for pilot careers and family (existing or future) well-being. Keeping that in mind, we can share ideas and info that supports those two important goals. Regards, NJW
I find your statement about "we all want what is best for pilot careers and family well-being" as somewhat hypocritical. You seem to want what is best as long as it serves your agenda. I have not read a single derogatory word from you on the unwanted takeover of NJI by NJA. If you truly wanted what is best for all, you would speak up on this injustice. It may have been what is best for NJA but the majority on this side still think it was not what is best for NJI. Just saying!
Injustice?
You and Billy V. seem to forget the sign of any good seniority integration is when the greatest amount of people feel equally screwed.
You are very misinformed about this "injustice" you speak of.
No one took your career from you.
Bee Dubya has done a great job dispelling rumors and myths like this crap you just posted.
PM him, he'll set you straight.
You and I are lucky to have him working for both of us.
He gave a valiant try to "set me straight" but obviously failed. One more question: why is it always the ones at NJI that don't get it or don't understand? As another poster often says--only bad companies need unions---NJI was not a bad company--the answer as I see it is that the union felt threatened by the independence of NJI and was fearful that management would use NJI to siphon off work from NJA and thus the takeover. Since NJI pilots were still making more money than NJA pilots (on the average) why would this have happened? We were perfectly happy (majority of us)--we didn't need or want you. But you tell us it is for our own good and that it will be a good thing for us--sounds a lot like what is currently happening in the political arena. Big government or big union have to look out for those of us that for some reason can't look out for ourselves. It isn't a coincidence that those two entities are in the same boat (big gov't and big union). As I read the different threads they often turn to a political slant and the majority seem to be strong conservatives but then the same posters come out as very pro-union, it seems like such a contradiction considering what unions have stood for through the years and considering the political party they almost always side with---as njw mentioned about caring for pilots and their families---this integration will cost money and quality of life to NJI pilots by limiting the their upgrade speed and potential---if you truly cared why didn't you just leave us alone? That was all we asked--nothing more and nothing less. Why didn't you just leave us alone?
Wow, I thought that this was a Flexjet thread.