This is only one girl's opinion - BUT....
Just be yourselves, guys (and I don't mean the perverted version, just the nice guy version).
Nice guys finish last. I am a very nice guy but I dont get laid unless I get more aggressive, be confident, and have a great time laughing and singing. This is strictly in a bar setting by the way. You dont get girls at bars to be your girlfriend. Going after girlfriends is a completly different thread.
Just be yourself and don't be a jerk.
Girls LOVE jerks are you kidding?
If you are being an honest, open guy with even a mild sense of humor, you should be doing just fine. If you aren't, you're probably looking for the wrong type of woman.
True.
If you want a one night stand, find a woman that wants the same. Try the usual places.
Hence a bar.
If you want a long term sexual relationship with no strings (well, ok, some strings), that's the easiest - friends with benefits.
Hard to cross that line and try and come back.
If you want a fulfilling relationship - you won't find it on flightinfo, that's for sure. I don't think I could even begin to give good advice here for fear of my buddy Hugh jumping in