divorce corner

[cooler07]

Kewlbeans, Cooler! ^5 to ya! Please let us know where in Russia you go... I've been there a few times on my own dime also.

Not many Redheaded Russians out there, but I know there are a few. Just be careful of that redhead temper!

Thanks AerroMatt its been fun as he11 so far!!!!!
I'll let you know but first stop is Khabarovsk.......!

 

[§kyye Candy]

Time does heal, as Longhorn put it. Some people just do not get along. Or one or the other is lacking. If you had your dream woman or man, would you or would you not spend your entire life with them?

There are many factors that break-up marriages, time away from home, money, bills, lack of sex for both partners, lack of daily touches, hug me, kiss me, scratch my back honey, "just hold me" type of issues.

And then there is a rampage, " I'm just going to do what I what to do attitude" and then this is what becomes devastating"

And then your are no longer interested in that boat that your husband has, you are tired of fishing, and just tired of the same old stuff he does, your husband stopped buying your flowers a long time ago.

You continually have to try new things as a partner to make it work! And you must compromise and contribute!

Hmm.. I was unhappy in my marriage for a while.

He wouldn't bang me hard enough (or long enough.) Finally I figured, screw this - I can do better. So I dumped him. Best decision I ever made.

The 28 y.o. boytoy is working out fantasic!

 

[§kyye Candy]

My sincere apologies. Your post did not make sense to me. Did not know about your husband. I feel aweful!

LOL

Hey TINA - I think I saw Lear over in the corner crying. You are being very very mean!

 

[§kyye Candy]

LOL, yeah I was trying to be a good role model there. In truth, whenever I was asked how I was doing with my alcohol consumption the best I could do was reply "it's gone up." That's probably an understatement. After I gave up the vodka tonics my hands don't shake nearly as much.....LOL

Good to hear - what kind of alcohol did you switch to? LOL

 

[belchfire]

Hehehehehe...


"Her look changes just a bit. Something is beginning to sink in. Naturally, she reverts to women's logic. 'You're full of ********************. You're trapped and you know it.' "

That is classic!

The very idea of someone using knives near the family jewels has always given me the creeps (my eyes either-no lasik for me) but you might have convinced me. I'm too old to go through raising another kid anyhow...

I don't want to get a divorce but I am really getting tired of all the drama when I'm at home!

 

[Joblu]

custody

I recently been presented with the challenge of getting full custody of my two young kids (8-5) Any single dads (pilots) out there that are going through the same challenges? If so, PLEASE any advice is a appreciated! Also any support sites for single dads in our career field out there on the web?

 

[atpcliff]

Hi!

MissKK:

We were successful in getting my dad's bills reduced significantly after he died. He had a number of bills, and assets, in his name.

We called various creditors, and told them that we could afford to pay "X" on a particular bill, and we negotiatied the final payment down to a level we could afford.

When a company realizes that if they demand full payment (which the deceased's estate can't support), the whole situation will go into probate, they'll have to wait a long time to get payment, and it might end up being the amount you offered in the first place, they are very willing to deal with you and work out a reduced payoff and/or payment plan.

Good luck to you, and GOD BLESS!

cliff
YIP

 

[Rip Vanwinkle]

I wrote on this board that I was engaged to a dead man, he was a pilot and I'm still engaged to him.

You're like the Godzilla of F/A cliches. There is literally no escape.

 

[tathepilot]

Just wait a year buddy.

I did and I feel great.!! New job, new city, new woman in my life..
I am very happy right now.!!

 

[Talian]

Marry a rich chick in upper management at a fortune 500 company like I did. I she cheats and divorces me I get half. Since she makes more than me I get allowance from being used to the lifestyle I was living. Thats where most guys especially poor pilots make the mistake. Marry a rich one and they wont dump you they got too much to lose.

 

[NuGuy]

Marry a rich chick in upper management at a fortune 500 company like I did. I she cheats and divorces me I get half. Since she makes more than me I get allowance from being used to the lifestyle I was living. Thats where most guys especially poor pilots make the mistake. Marry a rich one and they wont dump you they got too much to lose.

Heyas,

This is true. The door swings both ways in many States today, so be sure to claim what is yours. Play THEIR game to your benefit, and turnabout is absolutely fair play.

If you have paid any of their student loans, they MAY owe you a slice for any future earnings. If you made payments on any real estate, you MAY be entitled to a slice of any returns.

Personally, I wouldn't want any of those things, but they can be used as bartering chips to prevent other unpleasantness or to negotiate a quick, painless egress.

I also recommend a pre-nup absolutely, without question. You deserve everything you get if you don't have one.

Nu

 

[Narco-leftseat]

A wise man once said "Marrying a rich person is the hardest money you'll ever earn"...

Try it,...you'll see why

 

[learflyer]

A wise man once said "Marrying a rich person is the hardest money you'll ever earn"...

Try it,...you'll see why

not to mention the poor dude would have to pay her alimony anyway, while she keeps her millions.

 

[say again]

Ive managed to avoid divorce by not getting married!!!!:beer:

 

[FlyUnited]

Here's a novel thought.....get married and stay that way. No pre-nup, no division of assets, no broken homes. The KISS method to life.

 

[Flyingdutchman]

Not everyones life is perfect buddy.

 

[NuGuy]

Here's a novel thought.....get married and stay that way. No pre-nup, no division of assets, no broken homes. The KISS method to life.

Heyas FU,

True, this would be the prefered method, but sadly, it is no longer a viable option unless you live in a closed community, where the traditional family values (which I prefer) are still in practice.

Just like children these days, spouses are bombarded from all sides with relentless messages (via the media, neighbors, churches, girl/boyfriends) on how they should live their life (and most of that is not particularly positive or conducive to a lengthy marriage). You can't control or monitor that constant bombardment, nor is education, profession or personality any reliable indicator of who will succumb to it.

I've seen friends, who were GREAT people, go through HORRIFIC divorces simply because their SO had a "change of heart" (more than likely induced by a mother or divorced friends).

If you're lucky enough to live out in the country where "traditional" values are still in place, then super. If not, then use due caution.

Nu

 

[ultrarunner]

In the end she had hooked up with her 63 year old captain that’s 32 year older then her. Guess there happy flying charter together in BUF.

WOW.

Well, that pretty much narrows down who they are. It's a small town over there....

 

[freightdogfred]

Isn't that that dumb idiot WOMAN that actually says a woman's place is in the home and taking care of it and her husband or something stupid like that?

F*** is she a dumb b!tch! I'd love to slap her silly.


Yeah, yeah, yeah....I know.....there will be posts saying something like "smart lady" or some stupid bull$hit....you all can save it. She is a moron and a disgrase to females everywhere.

This coming from an unwed pregnant woman...

"You can lead a horse to water, but ya can't make him drink"

 

[learflyer]

sounds like a delicate little flower......