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How about "gee son, I just shelled out $100 k plus for your education and flight lessons to get you where you are and your poor old man needs another couple of years of income to pay off those bills. Thank you for understanding""
This is my favorite COP OUT.
If you are such a tightwad that you demand your children reimburse you for their education, then the FIVE YEARS worth of Captain's pay you are STEALING from your own son(daughter) will more than pay for the money you spent on his (her) education.
If you choose to be a bank rather than a parent, that is up to you. Getting more for yourself somehow makes it easier to get it from your own children?
Throwing a guilt trip on them, using their education as leverage is sad.
If you don't want to/can't pay for it, be a Man and let them know up front that they're on their own.
Give them the opportunity to reach the same place in their career you did at their age and let them worry about their own finances.
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