Nice of you to post your standards on stuff that ain't taught in ground school nor in the "policy" manual, the policy manual being about as useful as a pamphlet on STDs to a whore.
I'll try lazy, what does that give me? I know, an answer before the [non-existent] window closed. Why do you care so much about stupid questions being asked and answered on the internet, especially by an attractive woman you'll never have? Is this a manifestation of your anger towards your mother, who has generously allowed you to live in her basement, does all of your household duties, and hopes someday you'll be successful?