We have all had our "career expectations" adjusted in one way or another in the past ten years. I shall make a right-seat-after-60 pledge when many many other pledges are made and kept at numerous levels in our chosen field. With that in mind, I'm not to worried about having to make that pledge.
While I too have been skulled by the 60 rule, I am smart enough to know it was a stupid rule in the first place. 65 is not much smarter, but it is smarter.
And by the way, holding someone else responsible for one's unfulfilled career expectations stinks of welfare state drivel.
Man up!!!...You Hippie!
(note: I correctly spelled hippie this time)