nothing personal TB but ALL people of faith feel this way, that a person can't be moral unless they 'believe' which is a highly segregationist and elitest ideology to profer.
Not only does God impose His morality on "believers," but on ALL of His creation. Everyone.
The quote above does not reflect my position. You can subscribe to ALL of God's teaching on morality, and still not be a "believer." For example, many observant jews are moral, as were the Pharisees and Saducees, and probably many of the better Catholic priests and protestant pastors. Even a Hindu or Muslim may, repeat MAY behave in a moral manner. The non-religious people who are moral aren't even aware that they are subscribing to a moral system that originated with God. The ONE God.
Being a believer in Christ brings
salvation, but even then, you are not exempt from all of the temptation of immorality.
So, being a believer and being moral are often two different things entirely. The morality though, does indeed come from God.
its those manners of characterizations that allow the self-aggrandization that these 'people of faith' use to vilify those not like them.
ALL of the vilification comes from the sinful nature of Man, not from anything a believer or anyone else might say or think. It isn't a case of "those not like them," it's a case of those who are clearly engaging in behavior that God says is abhorrent. Your statement is only being used to vilify people of faith, though, isn't it?
I don't try to convert people, live and let live as it were.
That's how most people who are not believers live. For believers, the Great Commission mandates the sharing of God's word.
That's why it happens. Not to say "I'm better than you are" or some such nonsense.
i'm not perfect either, but i do consider myself to be a fairly good and moral person, i know right from wrong, and try to live thusly
That's good, but it doesn't get you to where you will need to be. The place where the one who created you wants you to be.
That is a matter beyond and separate from being a "moral person."