netjetwife
1 of many w/an opinion
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Welcome to the board, Flexwife!
FW, please don't be put off by the somewhat rocky reception. If it's any consolation, I faced the same doubt when I started posting here, too. When there's distrust of management it can easily make the pilots wary of sharing their complaints publicly. Some are slow to trust an outsider because union-busters (and even some managers) routinely use under-handed tactics to undermine labor groups...
So that's bound to make some in your group doubly cautious. Be patient and when the issues are discussed --prudently--you will be able to show your support for the Flex pilots. I'm sure many posting here are interested in learning more about the circumstances facing the Flex pilots and their families. Those who have gone through similar events are usually quite willing to lend their moral support and share observations on what one can expect to see from management (punitive scheduling, intimidation, FUD, etc) when they are trying to squash organizing efforts. Hang in there and welcome to the board, FW! 
Food for thought for those of you being excessively doubtful: Reading this thread took me back to my early days of posting here. It took a lot of posts just to convince some of the pilots that I truly was only an informed wife who wanted to discuss the issues affecting my family. There's obviously a Netjetwife, so it makes sense that there's also a Flexwife. I know you guys have heard that saying ...behind every good man there's a good woman. FW's on your side so her husband is too.
When pilots share their concerns at home, no one should be surprised that their wives take the situation as seriously as they do and want to compare notes with others in their group. Think about it.. when criticizing management openly by posting here, a family member doesn't face the same risk of negative consequences that the pilots do so we wives are in a good position to bring up the issues. And we certainly have lots of experience trying to raise a family on sub-par aviation wages! I can still remember my agitated posts from 2004. I was trying to rally the troops and then get the POSTA defeated because the NJA FO pay at that time was so low that some of our families qualified for govt assistance and punitive scheduling was disruptive to family-life. For too many frac families out there things are still very bad and I doubt very much that their management is sharing the pain of this recession equally. At the very least, pilots and their families deserve to know that if furloughs are required they will be done fairly-- by contract rules.
If the Flex pilotgroup is going to stand up for themselves, they will need the full support of their families and it will take a lot of discussions to get the entire group on board. An informed spouse is a great ally. A big reason that the grass roots movement at NJA grew into StrongUnion was because the leaders actively encouraged family support, knowing that it would be critical for success. Best wishes to the Flex pilots and their families! NJW
FW, please don't be put off by the somewhat rocky reception. If it's any consolation, I faced the same doubt when I started posting here, too. When there's distrust of management it can easily make the pilots wary of sharing their complaints publicly. Some are slow to trust an outsider because union-busters (and even some managers) routinely use under-handed tactics to undermine labor groups...
Food for thought for those of you being excessively doubtful: Reading this thread took me back to my early days of posting here. It took a lot of posts just to convince some of the pilots that I truly was only an informed wife who wanted to discuss the issues affecting my family. There's obviously a Netjetwife, so it makes sense that there's also a Flexwife. I know you guys have heard that saying ...behind every good man there's a good woman. FW's on your side so her husband is too.
When pilots share their concerns at home, no one should be surprised that their wives take the situation as seriously as they do and want to compare notes with others in their group. Think about it.. when criticizing management openly by posting here, a family member doesn't face the same risk of negative consequences that the pilots do so we wives are in a good position to bring up the issues. And we certainly have lots of experience trying to raise a family on sub-par aviation wages! I can still remember my agitated posts from 2004. I was trying to rally the troops and then get the POSTA defeated because the NJA FO pay at that time was so low that some of our families qualified for govt assistance and punitive scheduling was disruptive to family-life. For too many frac families out there things are still very bad and I doubt very much that their management is sharing the pain of this recession equally. At the very least, pilots and their families deserve to know that if furloughs are required they will be done fairly-- by contract rules.
If the Flex pilotgroup is going to stand up for themselves, they will need the full support of their families and it will take a lot of discussions to get the entire group on board. An informed spouse is a great ally. A big reason that the grass roots movement at NJA grew into StrongUnion was because the leaders actively encouraged family support, knowing that it would be critical for success. Best wishes to the Flex pilots and their families! NJW