Time will tell if your decision or those that chose to work for SkyBus or Virgin proved to be the correct one. Almost three decades ago a bunch of guys went with this crazy Idea that some business man had down in Memphis, and started flying this raggedy falcon 20's around the Midwest attempting to start an overnight package delivery service. Back in the day people used to say "Only a whole bunch of crazy rednecks would come up with a crazy idea like that." Well, It turned out OK for them, now just about everybody is Purple with envy. Some other folks decided to go work for another startup in one of the most competitive markets (If not "The Most") out of New York and compete head to head with the majors. Just plain crazy, everyone said that they would be closed within a couple of years. I don't hear them singing the Blues. Some others saw a well financed, well though out business plan in another startup operating out of Vegas flying brand new 757's and found themselves looking for jobs a couple of years later, nobody saw that coming that fast. I mean one day the buzz was so strong that it was the only thing you could hear in the aviation circles and the next day they where gone. Now half of the generation "X" that visit FlightInfo probably haven't even heard of National Airlines.
For those that decided to get out of aviation all together because you didn't agree with the direction that the industry is taking. Your decision is not unique, a lot of folks back in the last down turn of the industry that saw PanAm, Eastern and Braniff close their doors forever took your path and got out (Including me) after Eastern closed. I wanted nothing to do with this business because I didn't want to be an Airline pilot, I wanted to be an Eastern Airlines pilot. I was on the hiring pool when everything came tumbling down. I returned a couple of years later after my heartache subsided a bit and flew corporate for many years.
Later I accepted the meager wages as an F/O in the regionals thinking that it would be a stepping stone for me. And for a brief period, it looked to be just that way when I started to get interviews left and right from AA ,UA, CAL. It wasn't Eastern, but I was starting to feel good about returning to flying after all. And then one September morning the world changed forever. And here I am, still at a regional. But you know what? I'm happy.
People chose in different ways but is up to each individual to feel good about their choices and there will always be others who will disagree with the path you chose.
Good luck to all that decided to quit aviation for good. But one recommendation for you, If you stop smoking don't seat in the smoking section. So go lurk in the sites that theme your current trade.