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D'Angelo
for christs sakes people just move already! Just tell your wives/significant others that commuting is not an option at your job. If you do unfortunately get transfered well that happens at a lot of jobs and in the military all the time. Quit abusing yourselves and just move. Sure its nice to live where you want but is it really worth the hassle? All you have to do is say that your not allowed to commute, its not an option and unfortunately you will have to move. Remember you check the box in the interview saying your willing to relocate. If you don't move then there are inconvienences you will have to deal with.