netjetwife
1 of many w/an opinion
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Niteflyr, please don't put words into my mouth......I have no problem speaking for myself. That said, I will now explain "exactly" what I meant by having exchanges....
That comment was made in my post about what I deem as disheartening in this TA/MEC situation. I have had phone conversations and emails from other wives who have contacted me in their desire to share their viewpoint and persuade me to change my own. Their fear of dire results if we rock the boat rendered their argument inconsistant and irrational. It WAS a disheartening exchange. I certainly don't believe those women are "worthless", in fact I respect them for being willing to speak up. I continue to send them supportive emails of a general nature, individually and thru the wives board.
In my gateway calls, I have spoken to several senior pilots nearing retirement, their votes don't surprise me, even though I wish they had more faith that things will work out for the good of the majority. I still invite them to our gateway functions and feel no animosity towards them. Indeed, I wouldn't want to be in their positions; I find it disheartening. On the other hand, we have an older pilot in our area that is retiring next month, and abstained from the vote because it "wasn't his fight". I have great respect for his selfless position.
By now I have seen a broad spectrum of opinions, some of which I do characterize as based on fear (a position I can't imagine myself being in) or selfishness (a temptation I'm glad I don't have to face). Are those people worthless? Not in my book.
That comment was made in my post about what I deem as disheartening in this TA/MEC situation. I have had phone conversations and emails from other wives who have contacted me in their desire to share their viewpoint and persuade me to change my own. Their fear of dire results if we rock the boat rendered their argument inconsistant and irrational. It WAS a disheartening exchange. I certainly don't believe those women are "worthless", in fact I respect them for being willing to speak up. I continue to send them supportive emails of a general nature, individually and thru the wives board.
In my gateway calls, I have spoken to several senior pilots nearing retirement, their votes don't surprise me, even though I wish they had more faith that things will work out for the good of the majority. I still invite them to our gateway functions and feel no animosity towards them. Indeed, I wouldn't want to be in their positions; I find it disheartening. On the other hand, we have an older pilot in our area that is retiring next month, and abstained from the vote because it "wasn't his fight". I have great respect for his selfless position.
By now I have seen a broad spectrum of opinions, some of which I do characterize as based on fear (a position I can't imagine myself being in) or selfishness (a temptation I'm glad I don't have to face). Are those people worthless? Not in my book.