Groundpounder
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sky37d said:I'm reminded.
I was taking my PP lessons, when I lost my son. It was a horrible time. A couple of weeks later, I went back for a lesson. All the troubles lifted, I concentrated on flying, and the joy of being in the air. I can still remember that night, as if it was yesterday. Things got put into perspective. Having an understanding partner helps. So does sex. I found that if I am down, great sex puts things better. So does flying. Doing something different, changes the way you look at things. If you are constantly depressed, you can go see a shrink, or take a pill, but it's really up to you to determine what you are down about, and do something about it. Of course, that's the hardest part. Some of us don't want to acknowledge what that is. okay, that's just my $.02.
LowlyPropCapt said:Sky37d: Please do not take my above comments as minimizing in anyway the pain you felt after the loss of your son. I know that grief feels terrible, and your's must have been especially soul rending. I just feel a distinction needs to be drawn between the DISEASE of depression and FEELING depressed. We through that term around a lot without understanding what it really is, I think.
Gorilla said:Learjtcaptain, you had to know this would come, didn't you? 8/10 posters here sound like a clueless mom - "Cheer up, it's allll in your head." Some of you mean well, and some of you are just mean.
True depression is chemical, it's not just a state of mind. Yes, there are "the blues" that most get occasionally which CAN often be fixed by a rowdy night on the town. But for those that genuinely require meds, it is often a matter of life and death. It's not a joke. The guy wanted to know about getting BACK his medical, not how to snap out of a bluesy state.
I know some of you mean well, but it's a serious issue that can tear people apart. I saw it happen, and I have the utmost respect for that fine balance of dopamine and serotonin which regulates mood. Out of whack brain cocktail = utter and complete misery; I mean physically unable to get out of bed misery.
I wish I had the answer. My "friend" is not a pilot and successfully returned after the correct meds were found, but I'll say this... NOTHING should prevent you, your bud, or anyone else from seeking help. NOTHING. Do what needs to be done, and then work on the license. Good luck to anyone suffering.
dojetdriver said:Unless it's viagra.
I understand where your coming from. My wifes family is all depressed, a quick rundown. Grandfather clinically depressed, father depression also diagnosed with cronic fatigue, borther well he has lots of issues, mother is a mess, great aunt commited suicide due to depression issues. Sorry I can't name the actual "sickness" they have but you get the point. Her father even had the ECT shock theropy to help with it. On my side recently my brother was having issues of depression, and was given some drugs by the doctor. I think it was zoloft. Well, not only did it makes things worse he attempted suicide and failed thankfully. So I am not ne wto this at all. Here is my observation.Lrjtcaptain said:Oh how I disagree with some of the above. Some of you have absolutly no clue what you are talking about.
FN FAL said:Yea, we're all mean. So let me ask you this one...say the kid isn't clinically depressed and doesn't suffer from the same chemical imbalance problem as LrjtCA. He then goes down to the money grubbing doctor who gets a kickback from the pharmaceutical companies for writing prescriptions for the drugs that are going to ultimately mean a loss of flying status and a paperwork trail. How is it that we're mean for suggesting that the person re-evaluate their emotional status, before they run down and see the nice drug salesman MD guy?
If I was a doctor and I had my stethoscope out and was listening to some guy going on and on about "girlfriend dumped me...boo hoo hoo...yadda yadda yadda" I'd be thinking about how many more prescriptions I was going to need to write in order to buy that new cigarette boat and say, "Yea, you're depressed..."
Gorilla said:As for your scenario, you treat physicians in the same offhand, cavalier, and extremely unprofessional way some of our passengers treat us when boarding. "Hey Cappy, get enough sleep? snicker. How 'bout that 4 margarita lunch? Hope y'all aren't too drunk!" Your claim that a doc would automatically reach for his scrip pad (YEAH! Pfizer KICKBACKS!) to pay for his new boat is demeaning and inaccurate. Sure there're bad ones. Just like there are drunk pilots, but the vast majority are professional and will prescribe if needed, but not before. They don't make more money writing a prescription. Their fees come from the entire office visit.
Look at how much pain is underprescribed. Doctors are very hesitant to prescribe powerful medications.
As for me, probably like you, a case of ammo at the range is a near sure-fire cure for the blues!![]()