netjetwife
1 of many w/an opinion
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Absolutely being positive gets results. It's tied to winning while negativity goes with quitting. It's also good strategy to cheer for your team while they are on the field, especially when they are working long hours--for free.
Interesting spin there Diesel... It's not as though you voted down one offer and held out for more. Obviously, it was about the money with you, too. In spite of your digs at me for making pay a main issue, clearly, the end result$ played a big part in winning you over. I've been surprised at your attitude because you could ea$ily afford to be generous in supporting those who needed the money for basic necessities.
Clarification: I wasn't referring to your experience handling money. I'm sure you've had plenty. I was making the point that those with far less $ viewed the IBB proposal as acceptable early on. We viewed the TA from different perspectives. You from a two wage-earners, no children lifestyle. Me from a one bread-winner, three kids, family.
In spite of that difference, we share a dedication to the Union. I'm very pleased for you (and the other hold-outs) that the pot was sweetened to your liking in the end. That didn't surprise me at all. I had the faith all along. I wasn't optimistic because I'm naive, but because I was observing my husband closely and watching him for signals. Too bad you didn't take the hints. You missed your chance to be a hero, but I'm sure you'll make a handsome goat...
Interesting spin there Diesel... It's not as though you voted down one offer and held out for more. Obviously, it was about the money with you, too. In spite of your digs at me for making pay a main issue, clearly, the end result$ played a big part in winning you over. I've been surprised at your attitude because you could ea$ily afford to be generous in supporting those who needed the money for basic necessities.
Clarification: I wasn't referring to your experience handling money. I'm sure you've had plenty. I was making the point that those with far less $ viewed the IBB proposal as acceptable early on. We viewed the TA from different perspectives. You from a two wage-earners, no children lifestyle. Me from a one bread-winner, three kids, family.
In spite of that difference, we share a dedication to the Union. I'm very pleased for you (and the other hold-outs) that the pot was sweetened to your liking in the end. That didn't surprise me at all. I had the faith all along. I wasn't optimistic because I'm naive, but because I was observing my husband closely and watching him for signals. Too bad you didn't take the hints. You missed your chance to be a hero, but I'm sure you'll make a handsome goat...