I loved the comment about the hug! Archer, here is what I went through to be where I am today. I worked my a$$ off. I have worked three jobs at a time. I was a Southwest FA, CFI and worked as a contract pilot whenever I could. I have chased job leads everywhere I could find them. I have been discouraged to the point of quiting more times then I can count. I stuck with it though. Everyone has a story about becoming a Pro Pilot. They are all different. Some made the right steps the whole way. Some, like me, work their tails off to be where they are. There is no Golden Road or Golden Advice. By the true grace of God I am where I am today. I work in a good Corp Dept with Great people, fly a Sabre 65, my wife is able to stay at home with the boys and life is good. Good luck partner, your choices are yours and you will be the one to live with them. This is a hillarous thread BTW!