Birdstrike:
great post, you summed it up perfectly.
my problem is, why can't certain people keep that belief where it belongs, in their heart? if you live your life the way you believe God wants you to, you're living a good life. i have a problem when someone's perceived good life infringes on my perceived good life. we all have a moral responsibility to each other, after all, that's what a society is. in order to assure the basic morality of society is upheld, we create laws (can't kill each other, can't steal from each other, etc.) those civil laws aren't enough for some folks, they insist on enhancing those laws, with what they believe to be the right, true way to live, i.e., their self perceived good life.
if i did that, it would be illegal to eat meat on fridays, confessions every saturday to a priest, abortions would be illegal, and there'd be tons of unwanted children, since contraception is wrong. doesn't seem very attractive to those who aren't catholic, does it?
i'll keep my religion in my church, i just wish others would do the same.