That's one of the more assinine things I've read in a few weeks on here...
So let me ask you this: a 727 freighter Captain who has been working the U.S. Postal Service routes for a few years and considers his job fairly stable makes about $80k a year (4,600 a month after taxes) so he buys a $200,000 home - not exactly a mansion, just a 3 bedroom place to raise the kids far enough from the projects not to see crack whores on the corner. Year 2000 interest rates payment = $1,500 a month. Then he buys a $30,000 truck so he can get around - not a Porsche, just a Ford F150 truck: $400 a month. He still has student loans at about $200 a month, all total about $2,100 a month in debt - he's living on less than HALF of his income.
Then the contract is illegally single-sourced to FedEx - income GONE. Find a job at half the pay, about $2,300 a month. But he still has $2,100 a month in debt payments BEFORE he buys food for the wife and kids. Wife has a job that pays HER bills but not much more... Then September 11th happens and the guy gets furloughed and doesn't know when he gets to go back to work, so he finds a job on the side that only pays about $30k a year ($1,750 per month after taxes).
The above happened to me. NO CREDIT CARD DEBT, and I mean ZERO, ZILCH, so explain to me how irresponsible spending is a problem? Thank God for Chapter 13 BR that kept me from losing my house and my car and allowed me to drop the payments enough to survive, or should I just have let my family go without shelter, food, or clothing?
Guys like you always come out of the wood work on your high horse, but don't consider that not everyone fits into your neat little definition of "circumstance". Sometimes life deals you cards that you don't deserve; should you then get screwed even harder?
May you live to someday realize, FIRST HAND, what it's like to be on the receiving end of this equation.