Amen bro! Amen!
I don't get the big hurry with getting married either. It seems to me that after two to three years, reality sets in and that's when you know if you are truly compatible long term. My fiancee and I have been together over 5 years. I have never questioned whether or not I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him, but the longer I am with him, time has just made me even more sure (like 150% sure instead of 100%). I think waiting a while doesn't hurt. Once you are married, if things change, it's a lot harder to get out of plus then the other person is legally entitled to half of your $hit (lame if you ask me but then again, I didn't make that stupid law).
Capt. Death,
Is/does your fiance?
A. In a band?
B. A biker?
D. Unemployed?
E. Wear earrings?
F. Have a criminal record?
G. Other?
Inquiring minds are curious.