Probelm is pay is disapperaring and so is the quality of life in every contract out there.
I know why your friend is looking outside.
Even though you may only have 8 days a month off at a regular job you're home every night, your wife and kids actually know who you are and all those birthdays and events in your childrens lifes you can be at. Sounds like your friend has figured out where the true quality in life is.
Pilots are addicts. Thats why we take time away from home to commute across the country so we can fly for 18 days a month with pilots and flight attendants that we have never met before, who we don't enjoy being around because so many are waiting to stab each another in the back, so on layovers we hang out alone because most of the people you fly with are just not that friendly.
Home, family and friends. Thats were the true quality lies, through the friendships and comaraderie that are built by being together every day of your life.
I agree, thats why I got out in April. Working at a University in Pittsburgh and I don't see myself going back. I thought I would really miss the flying but I don't. I think the last few years really took the love of it out of me.