starcheckdriver said:
But, our messed up, incorrect paychecks are still more than your paycheck Purvis!
Yes you are right. Your paychecks are larger than mine, but are you enjoying life as much as I? Are you content with what you have? There will never be enough money in the world to make someone fully happy if they are seeking contentment in money and things. Just look at other threads on these forums. Everyone is always complaining about their paychecks, and how it's never enough.
That is where I see a problem with society these days. They need to sit back and look for contentment in what they DO have. My old girlfriend always said, and I would have to agree, "Count your blessings." Look at the bright side of things in life. You have food on the table, a roof over your head, air to breath, you can wake up everymorning (or night for you starcheckers) knowing that you have freedom of speech and don't have to fear for your life in the middle of a warzone. You have a healthy body capable of flying an airplane, while others just wonder how they are going to feed themselves with dehibilitating circumstances that life has dealt them. Yet even those people perservere and find joy in life, despite their circumstances. I admire those individuals. Imagine yourself working 40hrs a week at Wal-Mart on minimum wage. Doesn't sound like fun does it? Be thankful that you can make a paycheck and provide for your basic needs doing something you love to do. If we are soo focused on finding contentment in what we don't have and being under the impression that a bigger paycheck and more toys will bring that fulfillment, we will never be happy. The man who dies with the most toys, STILL DIES.
Have you ever taken a moment out of your busy day to do something for someone else. The joy and self gratitude that one can get knowing that they have touched someone else's life far exceeds any joy that one can get from money and "toys." That is where the extra time off that I have experienced lately has really blessed my life. I've had the opportunity to invest my time into others lives. Ya, I do hang out alot on these boards, but to stay in touch with friends I have made along the way. I still go back to the Wal-Mart I worked at over 5 years ago and visit with those friends too. There is a lady there that I used to work with that is suffering from breast cancer, the same thing my mom suffered from over 5 years ago. Having the time to be able to talk to her and give her a hug and a little bit of encouragement brings more joy to my life than having a few extra dollars in my wallet.
Did you ever see the movie "Shallow Hal." Did you see the look on Hal's face when he saw the girl in the burn victim and felt compassion for her. He didn't need a gorgeous girl and all the other things that society looks for in life to be happy. He realized how blessed he was and found satisfaction in knowing that when he had a different perspective on life and looked at the inner beauty of people, he was able to touch another person's life. He wasn't thinking of himself, but rather thinking about others and that gave him the joy in his life.
So, a bigger paycheck would not give me the joy that this extra time has given me. It has been time to invest myself into others and bring joy to their lives. Bringing a smile to someone else's face is what brings my happiness. How will people think of you after you die? What type of a legacy will you leave behind? I encourage you do go do something for someone else. You are blessed with that larger paycheck, make something of it.
OK, enough preaching. Fly Safe Everyone.
USC328
Ryan Purvis
P.S. - I do know that I have made a huge point in last posts regarding money and how second year pay at regionals will pay more than AirNet. I still stand by those facts, but I do know that that is not where I am going to find happiness. I will, however, give me more resources to be able to reach out to others. Wouldn't it feel great to be able to financially assist hurricane victims in their time of need. That higher income will make that possible, while ultimately still providing for my basic needs that I am so blessed to have.