I bailed at 14+ years, but had a great part time gig. It worked VERY well for me. However, here are some considerations...
For getting out...
-How much of a businessperson are you? What are your dreams? My Emerald Coast business has been a dream come true, and I've had a blast. My latest project is perhaps purchasing a stable/horse boarding facility. A UPT buddy is selling mortgages, buidling cabins, and works at FDX for "fun". What are your dreams? Hard to build much of an empire working 7-5 for the "man" everyday in the AF.
--How much do you want to be an airline pilot? Leaving NOW means UPS, FDX, and a host of others are hiring. Seniority is nice. Will they be hiring when you retire? Will your retirement be enough to live comfortably? How much do you need to FLY for a living? Right now you can get a flying job...in 5 years who knows?
--How tired are you of deploying, more with less, service above self, etc etc? Do you LIKE your situation now or are you just marking days off a calendar for the next 5 years?
For staying in...
Job security. Watch CNN. Looks like we got a job for the next few years.
Pride. Hard to beat. After 2300 + hours, stepped away from the Eagle last week. Cried and sniffled like a little girl. Won't get that kind of pride anywhere else...
Pay...not bad as a Maj/LTC/Col. You won't buy a ranch or a yacht, but you won't sweat eating out or the occasional new TV if you stay in.
The ultimate?
The "fence straddling" guy who finds an AGR slot but gets an airline line number prior. Problem is A) its hard to execute and B) you poison the well for those behind you. Tough to get someone from unit X hired after 1 or 2 guys pull that act... Again...I ain't preachin'....and your mileage may vary.
I got stories from all sides. My number is on the link below...feel free to call sometime if you need a sounding board. The call is worth what you pay for it...(nothin'...)