Jimntexas, what you doing in the civi world to pay the bills? If I could find a job that paid similar, i'd be done with flying. Being "always gone" is getting old. Life is passing by, etc....
I figured out pretty early on that while being an EWO in fighters was a teriffic job, there wasn't much future in it after my service time.
For that reason I bought one of the very first home computers, wrote programs on my own, volunteered to work on some of the early USAF flight planning efforts, and latter took some distance learning computer science.
When I retired in late 1994 the internet boom was just starting and anyone who write a 'hello world' program could find a job.
I got hired into an internet startup as a junior developer here in Austin while I still had two months to retirement, so I took terminal leave. I've been a software developer ever since .
I've been in several startups, none of which have really hit the big time, but its all been fun. I also purchased a retail tax preperation franchise that my wife runs as a hedge against age discrimination, but so far software is still my primary job.
Ironically, there is a small defense company I found here in Austin that might be a fit. They need a trainer/field engineer type guy to go out with the their boxes to help their USAF and Army customers. It would objectively make no sense for me to join them, it wouldn't pay a lot more than I make now, and there would be much more travel. From an objective point of view my main gain would be job security, since there is no security in software startups. I have tricare with a suplemental for insurance, so that's not a factor.
But I'm very tempted. It'd be fun to work on an Air Force base again.
I think.