Nevets
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You're right. Some marriages are not salvageable. For example, If there is substance abuse, domestic violence, or habitual infidelity, its probably too late. But this isn't rocket science here. Having a good marriage after having problems is not against the laws of physics. As long as that is true, there is always a chance. Maybe it's worth trying to make it work, maybe not. Only you, your spouse, and your God can answer that. Kids certainly plays a big role in whether salvaging your marriage is worth. They are the only innocent ones that will pay the consequences of both of your inabilities to provide them what all kids deserve. Don't fall for the narcissistic mentality that kids will never be happy if either of you are not happy. That doesn't have to be true if both of you are willing to sacrifice for a time being. You fell in love once, it's not an impossibility of it happening again. But marriage is so much more about being in love. Communication is the key.
Its easier said than done but I feel that life isnt solely about doing what makes you happy and that it's about doing what is right. Do what is right and have faith that that will make you happy.
Good luck!
Its easier said than done but I feel that life isnt solely about doing what makes you happy and that it's about doing what is right. Do what is right and have faith that that will make you happy.
Good luck!
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