Marriage Counselor in SLC...Divorce Lawyer

[flyboy321]

Marriage Counselor in SLC?...Divorce Lawyer?

Any recommendations? Preferably NOT LDS. I may need both....

 

[Stifler's Mom]

Sorry to hear. Best of luck with it.

 

[J.Otto]

a pilot needing a divorce lawyer? Ive never heard of such a thing.

 

[Axel]

Poll your divorced friends. Find out which one detests their ex's lawyer the most. Hire that lawyer.

It sounds flippant, but it is not. It is good advice.

 

[bigshooter107]

Find the best five lawyers around. Go and do an initial counsel tell them your story, none of them will be able to talk to her. Figure out who is best later...

 

[paid4training]

Well played sir!!! Do that and then take half ur sh!t and sell it!!!! What state are u in?

 

[CFI2766]

It...sucks.

No gentle way of coping with it. Life, however, does go on, in time.

Drink a little bit, have a couple of post-marriage one night stands, take it easy on yourself....

As difficult as it might be, the situation will go away quicker and less painfully if you do not go out of your way to antagonize your ex.

Obviously, research all that you can about the divorce laws in your state.

Cheers, and, have one for me....

-G

 

[pipers]

I know a skyw pilot's wife who does divorce law. pm me.

 

[flyboyzii]

Never get married until you have enough money for the divorce. THAT is my motto. BTW you NEVER have enough money for the divorce.

 

[J.Otto]

Find the best five lawyers around. Go and do an initial counsel tell them your story, none of them will be able to talk to her. Figure out who is best later...

thats from the sopranos

 

[Nevets]

Find a counselor with moral convictions who will tell you guys how you've messed up in your marriage. This will be someone from your church, pastor, preacher, priest, or rabi. You don't need the professional type that is just a facilitator of conversation. That is good for marriage maintenance. You need someone who will tell you guys the straight truth and suggest a path to reconciliation.

Good luck!

 

[Sig]

Strongly disagree, Steven. Your blanket fix assumes the marriage is salvageable, amongst other clear assumptions that aren't compatible with many couples' reality.

As the divorced son of a PhD counselor, I can assure you your post is essentially bs. Couples that pray together stay together, etc and so forth is a wonderful yet inept concept.

To the OP: get a lawyer. LISTEN to the lawyer. Indeed, get counsel from your church if you're into that, get counsel from a licensed counsellor if you aren't. It will help. But firstest and mostest- get a lawyer.

Try mediation. The point of a divorce is to exhaust every avenue of help to make sure you have no regrets later.

Last weekend, after a challenging back and forth with my ex, my dad lpoked at me and said, "You'd be out by now."

 

[CFIT]

I live in SLC, and I know a couple of good ones, you can PM me and I'll let you know.

I got divorced about 5 years ago, never been happier, my only regret is I didn't do it sooner!

 

[IBNAV8R]

Oh, I thought this was in reference to getting the whole XJT thing annulled.

 

[aerobat21]

Bail out and upgrade to a younger less defective model, next time just dont make any compromises. Remember your number one...