What happened to answering BeeVee
First of all “It's Not About the Money."
Boy, you all have gotten way off vector. BeeVee asked for some advice and you all proved the old adage: Opinions are like A**holes, everyone has one (or is one, I can't remember).
BeeVee, I’ve been at this game for 20 years now and remember when the Bonus came out back in the late 80’s. You are not the first, nor will be the last to think about selling your Freedom for some cash.
One thing I do know is this: Of all the many guys that I know who have taken the bonus, very few got to enjoy it or save much of it. I myself got sent to Columbus AFB to teach T-37s. I was forced to live on Base and because of this the public schools my 3 sons would have had to go to were the worst I have seen in my 20 years. So guess what, like many of the other military on base, I ended up having to send my boys to a private school, $10K a year plus all the driving to and from school my wife did (no bus service). Because I was prior service and had to many years of service for the original bonus, I got only 4 years of the $22 K bonus when they changed the law. So for the $94K I signed for, here is the break down. Taxes $34K, Charity, >$10K, School $34K, Left over $16K.
Thank goodness I got to move from CBM, I saved $10K I didn’t have to pay into school. My kids education means more to me than money, but it did hurt to spend their future college fund on Kindergarten.
The sad thing is, there are hundreds of stories out there worse than mine. All intending to have a little nest egg for their family. But because of one thing or another, ie: base closer and couldn’t sell their house, they ended up not having anything to show for their big chunk of Cash.
I never expected to get the bonus, and was planning to stay to 20 years anyway (I had 16 years in at the end of my UPT commitment). I believe God blessed me with the Bonus so I could pay for my Kids elementary education.
BeeVee, you need to do what you feel is right, but I am here to tell you that $200K will not make you happy, nor will it make your bosses like you more and ease your deployment schedule. Nor will it reduce the stress your kids have in moving 3 or 4 times to different schools and new friends. Wait till your kids get to junior high/middle school. All the other kids in class will have known each other for 6-8 years, so why would they want to get to know your kids.
And your job, yea being a line dog isn’t to bad, but when you pin on Major and become ADO/Sup, do you think your life will become less stressful. I had a 5 years below the zone to O-6 tell me: “Opie, in the Air Force the only reward for a good job is MORE WORK or No Punishment.”
You are a cog in a big machine, when you are worn out, they will just replace you with a new cog, and discard you like last week's trash. We have an O-5 who turned down O-6 last month. He wants to go to the airlines and let his children stay put for a few years. Well guess what, the 4-star AETC/CC, tagged this guy for a 90 day TDY. He was called on a Friday and was told to report the following Monday for the TDY. No regard to the fact he has done everything asked of him for the past 22 years. He became a quitter and is being punished. Worse than that, this 4-star will be the one who has to OK the O-5s Stop Loss (yea you bet).
I truly hate it when people bad mouth the Air Force or Military by saying, “The Air Force screwed me.” The Air Force and Military in general are these Huge organizations that want to do what is right. But! There are thousands of jerks within that destroy other’s lives.
I thank God everyday that I have a beautiful wife, 3 great sons, and a Job with Southwest lined up. I also thank God that I have had the privilege to serve my country for 20 years. If it wouldn’t be so painful on my family I would continue to serve on active duty. But my wife and children are tired of the grind of moving and having to make new friends.
My advice to you, get out while the getting is good, get a guard job, and wait for the Major airlines to call you. From my vantage point, all the Good guys got out in the 90s because they knew they could get jobs. Most of those that stayed in were dead beats (like myself) because it was easier to do. Look around your squadron, look at the Majors and LtCols. How many of them do you think would have a chance at getting and passing an interview.
Nothing worthwhile is EASY, Nothing EASY is worthwhile. Don’t let money blind you, serving your country “Is not about THE MONEY.” We all stay for our own reasons, what ever you decide, Put your reasons on Video tape so you can look at it in 10 years and remember why you did what you did.
May God Bless you and your family, and fly safe.