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Thank you all for the intelligent discussion. That in itself is inspiring.
The first time, no type. I was one of the lucky few in '04 to interview without the type. I have some prior experience with SWA. I worked for them, a few years back. Without giving away too much info, let's just say I had a very good personal recommendation from a very important person in the company.
Maybe I was cocky the first time around, but I doubt it. I was nervous as heck, and I know at least one thing that almost certainly kept me out of the running. Just a nervous goof, but a big one. I wasn't surprised to get the letter.
While waiting for a second shot, I had the cash and the opportunity to get the type done. I did it and waited for the call. When I did the second interview, I felt much better about the interview.
I am in no way perfect, but I have no idea what they didn't like. No one gets that info. None of my references were ever called (that I know of), but I don't know if they call refs for people who have worked at SWA before.
The thing that is so frustrating is that when I worked for them, I impressed my superiors, got letters of rec from several of them, and drank, ate, and immersed myself in the luv. It is the only place I want to fly. Only people who have been there can really understand, especially working at HDQ.
I am not ignorant. SWA has its own issues. Every company does, but it is the place for me. At least I think so.
About the busts. One was a biggie as an FO, but I learned a lot from it. Mostly how to help (and deal) with a captain having a bad day (we both busted). I busted only non-flying duties. It was a good lesson.
The second was a type ride and ATP. I made a split second decision, obviously the wrong one, to continue a SE ILS when I realized I forgot to bug final ref (20 kt fast) below 1000'. I was thinking it was more risky to do single eng missed than to readjust speed. I never deviated from loc or gs. I landed and was told it was a bust. Stupid decision, I know. But I continued the checkride and everything else was golden. I learned that there are company mins and I will stick to them.
Both were in late 2000. All rides since, SAT.
Again, I ain't perfect, but I have never had any training "issues". I always progress right through training, and I even showed the glowing comments from Higher Power training record to my logbook interviewer.
I hope not to sound like I am whining. I am lucky to be where I am in life. I would be grateful for another chance to be at SWA.
I have no special right to be at SWA. I don't think I am God's gift to SWA or aviation in general. It is very frustrating for me and my family (wife worked there too) , as it is for everyone that looks to Southwest as more than just another seniority list, when you get the dreaded letter.
The frustrating thing is I can only be myself. I don't know how to be anything else. I can learn, grow, improve my skills, and even be a better pilot than I already think I am.

I want to do this at SWA. Until that happens, I can only guess as to what they see.
My whiny rant boils down to this: Why does Southwest interview pilots 3, 4, or more time and finally hire them?
It is their baby. They get to protect it however they want. From the outside it is just frustrating. I will keep trying. I hope they like me.
